OTD 13dp5dt BFN

[Wrighty82]

I tested yesterday as I wanted the weekend to process things. I was sure it hadn’t worked, and I was sadly correct.

I’ve not slept at all well this week and the anxiety really got to me. I just knew when we went for transfer our chances were so slim. The embryo had just reached a blastocyst but was slowing down.

I know it sounds crazy but I’m just so relieved to know, and move on to positive steps!

As it was our first go, and I coped really well with the treatment (sadly we didn’t have any to freeze), I have got the strength to do it all again. I’m looking forward to having a rest from it for the time being and coming back in a few months fighting again!

It’s a journey, but I hope that we will get there some day 😊

Good luck to you all and keep positive. It’s a emotional journey full of ups and downs. Thank you all so much for your support and kindness. Be in touch in a few months. 😁🙌🏻 xxxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

So sorry it hasn't worked, but you've definitely got the right attitude so take a bit of time off and focus on yourself and other parts of your life that are not conceiving!! and come back positive and refreshed ready to try again. Good luck xxx

[Wrighty82 in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

Thank you 😊 xxx

[Novice_knitter]

Sorry to hear it didn’t work out for this round. I know what you mean about the relief of knowing either way. I hope you recouperate well ready for your next steps. Are you meeting your consultant to discuss if there’ll be any changes for your next cycle? We did that, more to better understand the decision making etc... and it was really helpful. Xx

[Wrighty82 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Thanks 😊

Yes I’m going to phone the clinic tomorrow with the result and hoping to see consultant and look towards next steps. Xx

[kirstyblue]

I’m sorry to hear this. Well done you for being one strong women and being able to pick yourself up and carry on. Wishing you the absolute best of luck for the future. X

[Wrighty82 in reply to kirstyblue]

Thank you that’s so sweet xx

[Apples2665]

Sorry to hear it didn’t work out for you, but you have such a strong and positive attitude I’m sure it will work out in the future. Xx

[Wrighty82 in reply to Apples2665]

Thank you!! I’m looking forward to the next round already! X

[silverlini]

So sorry to hear it didn’t work out for you this round. Keep going!! I didn’t have any to freeze on my first round but had one to freeze on my second. The only real difference I did was acupuncture and Zita West supplements xxx

[Wrighty82 in reply to silverlini]

Thank you for your advice, much appreciated 👍🏻 xx

[Wrighty82 in reply to silverlini]

Just had a look online for Sita west supplements, which ones did you get? There seem to be a few to choose from! Thanks xx

[silverlini in reply to Wrighty82]

I got the vitafem and vitafem boost with the DHA and a vitamin D spray xx

[Lou7744]

I’m sorry to hear that you got a bfn. You positive attitude is amazing!! Wishing you lots of luck for your next cycle 💕 xx

[Wrighty82 in reply to Lou7744]

Thank you! Xx

[TheaFX]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I know we were on the same day throughout this and I had a BFN too. Like you though; relived to know, and just get on with life (and next steps)! And the next time I figure it won’t all feel so difficult and dramatic. So well done for getting through it. Practise round - complete! Xxx

[Wrighty82 in reply to TheaFX]

Absolutely. This was a trial run and hopefully we will be successful next time. Sorry you had BFN to. It is so disappointing. We were disappointed at the time of transfer. I remember feeling it should have been such a special moment but instead feeling what’s the point?

I hope you’re ok. You’ve got a great attitude. 👏🏻 You’re right, we know what to expect next time which makes it easier.

Best of luck to you and enjoy these next months off! 😊👍🏻 xx