Worried

[isiomak2000]

Worried sick.I had a transfer on the 5th of December,a five day blastocyst..I noticed some crampy feeling on the second day of transfer.Afterwards,nothing till on the 11th day when i used the loo cleaned and saw some bright red blood.It didn't come out again but started noticing very light brownish particles with small cramp.But I could manage the cramp,not heavy or painful.Woke up this morning,feeling very empty,no more cramp,no nothing.My OTD is tomorrow..Should i still go ahead and test or accept that i am practically out again..Any reassurance from any who has passed this road and still got a bfp?I am afraid to test.

[Bernie150781]

Hi I've had pretty much the same as you, my transfer was 7th and test day is 21st, a full 14day wait, Ive had cramps and a bleed, not much but enough to worry me, I am still hopefull. I will still be testing on Monday, all the paperwork says it is very common to bleed a bit, still do your test, you still have every chance, good luck for tomorrow X

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

My dear i wish you all the best..I will try and test but this flat feeling,emptyness is killing me..Thanks,will keep you posted.

[Bernie150781 in reply to isiomak2000]

You only have 1 more day, you need to test anyway as the clinic will need to know the outcome, you can do this, keep busy today and make sure you update you news (either way) on here, we will be here to support you no matter what X x

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

I tested positive Cherie..Blood test..I didn't have the courage and strength to use the home test kit..I am shaking with joy...I pray the joy flows to you and everyone waiting for OTD..And the joy stays oo Amen.

[Bernie150781 in reply to isiomak2000]

This is just lovely news, merry Christmas X x

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

Thanks a bunch dear..I am wishing you a very successful outcome of your testing too... Waiting to hear your joy... Merry Christmas💕

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

Hello dear..How are you doing?Just thought of you my dear..

[Bernie150781 in reply to isiomak2000]

I had a positive test too, all smiles this Christmas X

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

Plenty of it dear...All the best all through..XX💕

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

How are you doing dear?I Wish you a happy new year 😍

[Bernie150781 in reply to isiomak2000]

I'm good thankyou, how're you? happy new year to you X

[isiomak2000 in reply to Bernie150781]

My dear i am so worried.I just had my first scan today..I am supposed to be 6 wks but the scan is saying 4wks with twin gestational sac,no foetal pole yet...I had a a very small bleed on the 31st and cramped small,called my doctor said to increase my gestone injection.I did and the cramps stopped,She said do scan today,just did and it's saying threatening abortion,repeat scan in two weeks time for foetal pole..I am just worrying. Said i need bed rest..I am tired,just feeling so low.How are you doing?hope you are progressing well?all the best dear.

[isiomak2000 in reply to isiomak2000]

My dear went back for transvaginal ultrasound,dating 5 weeks 6days,foetal pole seen on one of the sacs.The other,nothing..Just be remembering me in your prayers..I need it so much.. Conclusion,threathning abortion,needs bed rest.I will try and rest though i have not been exerting energy since the embryo..Only God can see us through.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi isiomak. Of course you should do a test, otherwise you won't know what's going on. Little bleeds happen and we always don't know why, sometimes due to the transfer process. Just keep up with any prescribed medication and have a rest when you can. Good luck! Diane

[isiomak2000 in reply to DianeArnold]

Merci beaucoup cherie.I have been trying not to worry again.Tomorrow is at the corner😉just encouraging myself..God bless!

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to isiomak2000]

Hi. I shall be thinking of you. Good luck! Diane

[isiomak2000 in reply to DianeArnold]

My darlyn i just had blood test and a big POSITIVE...I am overwhelmed and at the same time scared...I couldn't drive back because i began to shake from the news...

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to isiomak2000]

Hi idiomatic. Well done you! So pleased to hear this.keep taking the Folic Acid and Vitamin D and any other prescribed medication. Have a good rest when you can. Diane xx

[isiomak2000 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thanks so much for encouraging me to test... Wishing you all the best things of life... Merry Christmas...

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to isiomak2000]

xx

[isiomak2000 in reply to DianeArnold]

I have been trying to be positive all along but just saw blood as i went to pee and feeling as if af is coming..This journey is full of worrying even when you try not to..First scan is to be on Saturday but i don't think i can wait again..Sorry for not greeting first,just worrying..

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to isiomak2000]

Hi. Oh bless you. I can fully understand how worried you are. Only just seen this as I am on annual leave. Just keep up with any prescribed medication and rest when you can. I shall be thinking of you. Diane xx