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So am almost there, one more sleep before OTD.

I swear the last week speeds up and am at point I want it to slow down πŸ˜‚

Trying to remain positive and feeling a good sign no sign of af yet. 🀞🏼

Had spotting day 7-10 then nothing surely this is a good sign ?

Not much other symptoms last few days other than frequent urination and really vivid dreams.

This is a natural cycle (no birth control) so my period would’ve been due last Wednesday. I feel as I clearly do bleed when on progesterone then am sure my period would’ve arrived by now. It did with my last BFN... but I know that no cycle is the same !

Please can everyone say a little prayer for me tonight, this is my last chance I feel with my own eggs

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Vicster80

Sending positive thoughts and got everything crossed for you xxx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toVicster80

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

Fingers crossed for you 🀞xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply to

Thank you, 🀞🏼 for you too... is it Monday your OTD?

β€’ in reply toHope76

Yep it's Monday, started my period Thursday though so no joy this time for me. Hopefully you'll get a different outcome to me x

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Hope76β€’ in reply to

Oh my goodness am so sorry. That happened to me on my last cycle so you know I feel your pain. 😒 Thinking of you.

Thanks for your good wishes πŸ™πŸ»

β€’ in reply toHope76

Thank you lovely.

Luckily we managed to get 1 little one in the freezer so at least there's still hope. Booked in my follow up but still have to call the clinic tomorrow to confirm it's definitely negative tomorrow which feels a bit of a farce but hey ho!

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Picalilli99

This all sounds positive. Well done on surviving the 2ww you are so nearly there! Wishing you the best of luck, hoping you get your BFP tomorrow 🀞xxx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toPicalilli99

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Stato

Well done for holding on til OTD! I did too. Couldn’t bear the uncertainty of either result if I had tested beforehand.

All sounds really positive to me. We’re all wishing you well for tomorrow. Have some things planned for either eventually just in case. Really hope you’ll have to be on the no-secco to celebrate! X 🀞🏻🀞🏻🀞🏻

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Hope76β€’ in reply toStato

I tested early last year got BFN convinced myself too early as had all symptoms. Period came day before OTD so that kinda confirmed it . So no wasn’t tempted to early test after that !

The huge difference this time is no sign of period and am hopeful 🀞🏼

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Gueritarubia

Oh this all sounds so promising! The symptoms you describe I had all with my toddler (fresh cycle so medicated), but never since (medicated FETs). And I think your period not having shown its ugly face surely means something! Really really really hoping this is your time, you so deserve it! One more sleep - I’ll be looking for a message when I wake up in the morning! Grow baby grow!

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Hope76β€’ in reply toGueritarubia

Thank you. πŸ™πŸ» This time was a fresh cycle only difference was no noretheristone . I know progesterone can delay your period though but last time I had a BFN my af was already showing at this stage so it is hopefully looking promising 😘.

Am not at home just now living with family 3 hours away...... never took test with me as want to do it when I get home so gonna be afternoon tomorrow πŸ™ˆ. Did think best maybe waiting till morning pee Monday as know stronger but am pretty sure will try anyway tomorrow x

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Gueritarubiaβ€’ in reply toHope76

Clever thinking - keep the temptation at bay and also give yourself time to process the result and have a choice of when to share. Crossing my fingers so hard it hurts!

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Hope76β€’ in reply toGueritarubia

Really can’t thank you enough for your support it means so much 😘

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Pee in a cup on the morning and keep it for the test. Afternoon urine might disappoint you and cause unneccesary stress xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

I thought of this but I don’t have a container that has lid with me though & we are a 3 hour drive away. Heard as well not to use old urine. If we’re home later than planned may just do Monday morning. Waited this long πŸ˜‚πŸ€žπŸΌ

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Yeah that's not something you wanna be holding in the car Haha! Fingers crossed for your evening test xxx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

You know what I have a small mineral water bottle so am contemplating it. Some stuff reading online though says shouldn’t use if more than 2 hours old some says 24 hrs .... so best maybe chance the later pee..... decisions decisions πŸ˜‚

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Hahaha it's so confusing isnt it! Let me know what you decide!!xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

I will just use the pee later today just in case x

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Hope76β€’ in reply toHope76

Actually never been so nervous about testing guess am feeling in a happy bubble at the moment

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

So... arrived home way later than planned so not chancing evening urine. πŸ™ˆ Only have one test and it states best used with morning urine.

Back to our original plan and testing tomorrow morning.

One more sleeplessness night to go 🀞🏼

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Aww man!! I thought this message was gonna be it 🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞 xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

I have never been so nervous to test & actually glad have another night of silently praying πŸ™πŸ»

Had some pinky red spotting when wiping this morning only once & straight after a bowel movement so hopefully didn’t mean anything sinister 🀞🏼

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Yeah i wouldnt think so, my sister had a bleed after having her bowels moved too and all was fine, it's quite common. I'm so excited for you xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

Phew that’s a relief to hear, although I was sure it was that I had a feeling of dread minute seen it. Good sign nothing else so far. When it failed last time af was here before my OTD. So this does seem so different & hopeful πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ™πŸ»

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

All good signs..is tomorrow day 15 then? I can't believe you havent caved xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toFlorencenightingale

Tomorrow is day 16, so can safely say this is my longest 2ww ever πŸ₯΄

I know, caved last year convinced it had worked & nope πŸ‘Ž so decided never again.

P.s I just read your profile, fantastic you are expecting a girl πŸŽ‰ Truly made up for you, a healthy pregnancy is the best feeling ever πŸ‘ŒπŸ»x

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TTCsunshineβ€’ in reply toHope76

hope you get it it this time..hey I got mine just a couple of days before..AFTER A DECADES TIME..BE POSITIVE.

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Florencenightingaleβ€’ in reply toHope76

Aww man you are strong! Aww thanks so much. Got everything crossed for you today xxxxx

Youve done amazing to get to day 14 without testing!

Hope tomorrow goes well πŸ’ž xx

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Azzurra79

It all sounds super positive!! Very best of luck and feeling cautiously excited for you x

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Hope76β€’ in reply toAzzurra79

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Ew2020

Good luck Hope76! Xxx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toEw2020

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Clairelee86

Everything crossed for you x

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Hope76β€’ in reply toClairelee86

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Cici85

Praying for you Hope76 . It’s gonna be goodnews I pray .

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Hope76β€’ in reply toCici85

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Cinderella5

All the best, hopw you get good news!!πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ˜˜xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toCinderella5

Thanks Cinderella I am actually shitting it as really have no idea how it’s gonna go x

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Pinkybaby

I can't wait to hear the news of your BFP tomorrow. Wishing you all the best ❀️

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Hope76β€’ in reply toPinkybaby

Oh I do hope so Pinkybaby. Thanks for your support 😘

You can’t have long to go now ? How are you feeling ? x

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Pinkybabyβ€’ in reply toHope76

Feel depressed sometimes, sometimes stable. Sometimes it seems AF is at the corner, othertimes I have high hopes. I'm really tired of the situation. OTD is Thursday. I pray God sees me through πŸ™

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Hope76β€’ in reply toPinkybaby

Totally relate, have you had any spotting ?

I do feel now it’s almost test day am actually dreading testing as well been hopeful so many times before.... hopefully this is our turn πŸ™πŸ»

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Melbrod

Thinking of you. X 🀞

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Hope76β€’ in reply toMelbrod

Thank you 🀞🏼

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Olivia1980xxx

Thinking of u hun and I pray for your BFP 2morrow πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ€

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Hope76β€’ in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Thanks Hun I usually have an incline but honestly no idea. Daren’t get hopes up but am trying to remain positive. Whatever happens I always have my Harry bear and am more fortunate than some 😘

Saying a big prayer for you xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply to

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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PurplePiggie

Sending positivity out in to the universe for you! 😘

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Hope76β€’ in reply toPurplePiggie

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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Walton776

Amazing luck! Sounds like you have so good signs there! 🀞 Thinking of you xxx

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Solly-44

Huge luck for tomorrow! Will be keeping everything crossed for you xx

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FrancyItaly

Big prayer for you for tomorrow! πŸ™πŸ» I hope to hear good news ✨✨✨

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Yehong78

Hope76, wish you the best of luck! All good signs! πŸ’ͺπŸ™

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Hope76β€’ in reply toYehong78

Thank you, how are you any more symptoms? Spotting ?

When are you due to test ?

Wishing you lots of luck πŸ€

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Yehong78β€’ in reply toHope76

No more symptoms at all for the rest of the 2WW and still suffered insomnia (inadequate sleeping hours). I almost gave up. Asked my husband to buy a really good bottle of wine on Thursday so that we could drink it after I got the BFN. BUT, we got a BFP πŸ˜‚ ... so he drank the wine all by himself! I also did a second blood test on Sat (48hours later) to see how HCG had been going and it has tripled. So, I’m waiting for my 6 week appointment to do a scan now.

I really hope to hear good news from you! My best wishes and I will pray for you! ❀️

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Melbrodβ€’ in reply toYehong78

Congratulations πŸ₯³ I told you insomnia was a positive symptom. Take care x

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Hope76β€’ in reply toYehong78

I am so pleased you never had to drink the wine πŸ‘ŒπŸ»Huge congratulations πŸŽ‰ it just shows sometimes no symptoms mean it’s a BFP. Apart from the spotting and vivid dreams/sleepless nights I haven’t had much especially last few days. With my last BFN my period had already arrived by OTD so am feeling like this could be good sign that this time appears completely different πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ™πŸ»x

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Yehong78β€’ in reply toHope76

Waiting to hear from you! 🀞🏻

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Dinuss

Best wishes for you 🀞πŸ₯°

Wishing you all the best and have everything crossed for you today πŸ€πŸ€žπŸ˜˜ xx

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Alexa3

All sounds so positive!! Thinking of you and crossing everything for you! πŸ€žπŸ»πŸ’«

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Hope76β€’ in reply toAlexa3

Thank you am still 3 hours from home away to have a family lunch before we hit the road !

Can’t say am excited to test as had bit of pink spotting this morning πŸ™ˆ

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Fluff123β€’ in reply toHope76

Wishing you every bit of luck.

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Luna_79

Best of luck for tomorrow hope xxx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toLuna_79

Thanks for your support Luna, I do hope you’re coping ok 😘

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jengi

Everything crossed for you for tomorrow! Good luck Xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply tojengi

Thanks, so glad to read your bleeding has stopped. πŸ‘

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Keepingfaith85

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow ❀️ I'm keeping everything crossed! X

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Hope76β€’ in reply toKeepingfaith85

Thanks πŸ™πŸ»

So pleased to read despite your bleeding you are having a healthy pregnancy. I am lying next to my 4 year old who is my first miracle. I bled prefusely with him at about 9 weeks and everything turned out just fine 😘

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