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Day before FET results and am so scared!

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My DH and I have been ttc for 3 years and have done 4 rounds of IVF. Last round we had one frozen embie and we had it transferred. Tomorrow is our test day and Im on tenterhooks. Every other cycle AF has arrived so we've been pretty sure it hasn't worked but this time there isn't any sign. I don't feel any different and of course I hope & pray it's worked but also feel terrified and the thought of it not working again is too much to bear. Am hoping AF not arriving is a good sign and it's not just the progesterone delaying everything, but I'm 4 days late so fingers crossed 🤞

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sarahJE

Good luck! X

Best of luck to you

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Kat_15

Wishing you lots of luck. 🍀xx

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Dumbo12068

Good luck lovely got everything crossed for you xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Greatexpectations. Of course you are terrified, that's only natural, when you have had many failures. I am hoping that as "nothing" has happened, you might be in for a surprise tomorrow - I do hope so, and I shall be thinking of you. Diane

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Katbaby19

All the best for tomorrow, I hope u get your positive!xz

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Gem2410

Good luck. Fingers crossed for you 🤞 xx

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Solly-44

I know the feeling scared bit but I so hope you get a lovely surprise tomorrow. Good luck xx

Good luck for tomorrow! Xx

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everhopeful83

Sending you lots of luck for tomorrow ❤️xx

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Yalda

Good luck tomorrow. Mine is on Thursday . I am scared too. X

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Greatexpecations in reply toYalda

Good luck sending you positive vibes!x

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Libsie3103

Wishing you lots of luck! My test day is a week today and I’m already dreading it after a failure last time. Have my fingers crossed for you xx

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Greatexpecations in reply toLibsie3103

Good luck! Fingers crossed for you x

Good luck! Will be thinking of you tomorrow.xx

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Cinderella5

Good luck.xx

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Greatexpecations

Thank you for all your lovely messages, it really does help to know you are not alone. It's another negative result unfortunately, and the bleakness is back with a vengeance. So hard to be positive about this journey as it takes so much from you. Good luck to all of you waiting for results. Hope that it turns out well. DH and I are working through the pain and heartbreak again before we decide what's next (or not) xx

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Libsie3103 in reply toGreatexpecations

I’m so sorry to hear this. This journey is so so tough. Try and take some time out for you & make sure you look after yourself xx

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Greatexpecations in reply toLibsie3103

Thank you for your kind words. Just feel numb and like nothing really makes sense. I think I need to take some time to heal (we both do - DH and I). Good luck 🤞

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Cinderella5 in reply toGreatexpecations

I msorry to hear this!! Big hugs, it never gets easier to see an negative. Be kind to yourselves.xx

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everhopeful83 in reply toGreatexpecations

Really sorry to read this, sending hugs💖

in reply toGreatexpecations

This journey is not easy! I'm so sorry to hear this! Take care of yourselves! xx

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Shelleybean

So so sorry to read this. I know how hard it is to get another negative. We’re just starting our 4th fresh round (never had any good enough to freeze) and the thought of facing another fresh cycle after a negative sometimes feels impossible at the time. Take some time to heal and explore your options. Sending lots of love and strength 💕 💕 xx

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Greatexpecations in reply toShelleybean

Thank you for your message and kind words. Have had to travel south for work today and just walking through the station in London I burst into tears. Its so hard to get through this part xx

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Elynn

All the best 🌻

Best of luck 🍀🤞totally understand how u feel, you want to know but also don’t hey, good sign if no period has come though, fingers crossed and I look forward to hearing ur positive news 🤞 x

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