BFN after 2nd FET

[Cfgp]

I couldn't wait any longer, even though I already knew, and tested. The at home pregnancy test was negative. My blood test is tomorrow. I don't know why this failed again. They have found no issues with me. I even did an endometrial scratch this time. The embryos have been good quality both times. I have 1 more good quality and 1 mosaic. I feel like I am wasting them.

[Sas1101]

I'm so sorry to hear this. No matter what I say it's so heartbreaking but I always say be kind to yourself. Treat yourself to something lovely.

I felt the same last week (chemical FET) and climbed into bed a few days. I needed it but have put my positive pants on and ready for the next cycle. Remember you are so strong 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[Cfgp in reply to Sas1101]

Thank you, I know I'm fortunate to have another chance. It's just so exhausting.

[Sas1101 in reply to Cfgp]

It's definitely is exhausting 😔 big hugs 💕

[Hidden]

So sorry for your failed cycle. I agree with Sas, you are entitled to feel angry/sad/upset etc but you will start to feel better and you will start to find that fight again, it’s great news you have a couple on ice and here’s hoping it’s third time lucky for you xx

[Cfgp in reply to Hidden]

Thank you ❤, you just get so worn out from the crazy hormones they have us take

[Luna_79]

So sorry to read this, be kind to yourself , it’s so hard when the embryos have been so promising 😔 xx

[Muppetgirl]

Don't want to give you false hope but my home pregnancy test was negative the day before my bloods. That pregnancy is now my dancing 8 month old wriggly baby boy.

Whatever the outcome I'm sending you energy to move forward though

[Cfgp in reply to Muppetgirl]

Thank you ❤

[Sisibaby]

Does your clinic offer genetic testing before they transfer the embryos? Next egg collection, if you get more than 4-5 I would get them tested for abnormalities. The reason that don’t stick is your body rejecting them normally. Get them tested first and you know you’re putting in ones with no abnormalities and you’re chances of a successful pregnancy will Sky rocket

[Cfgp in reply to Sisibaby]

We did that actually, they have all been normal. That's why its so confusing for me

[LisaBeatrix1980]

I'm so sorry, I know how heartbreaking it is, we are here for you. Be kind to yourself, let yourself feel what you need to, its so hard questioning why things happen the way they do, and at times it's incredibly unfair, you're entitled to feel that way. Thinking of you x

[Lisichka]

Hugs. Sorry to hear that it’s a bfn. Have you done ERA? Maybe worthwhile doing it before your next transfer.

Sending you positive energy xx

[Cfgp in reply to Lisichka]

No i haven't, I'll definitely ask my Dr about that when we talk next. Thanks for the suggestion.