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Had my beta test yesterday which came back negative 😔 Was so hopeful this time cos due to low AMH I transferred 2 donor blastocysts but still failed. This donor thing is really disheartening cos I felt like they were excellent quality so should have stuck but alas back to drawing board to find another donor.

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Hopewhite

So sorry about this, I just wanted to send you a big hug xx , please be kind to yourself and don’t lose hope xx

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Glory24

Sorry hear this news. Do take some time to recover physically and emotionally. Keep positive 💕

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Citizenerased83

So sorry lovely. It's so hard. Be gentle on yourself. Sending you hugs xxx

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Blessed5510

sending you a big hug! I know this is so hard. Don’t lose hope. Did your doctors run any additional test to see why you had implantation failure, were there any testing done on your embryos? These were some of the questions I asked when mine didn’t work. Wishing you the best.

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YellowStar4 in reply toBlessed5510

Thank you 💕 Since I only had 2 blasts (actually a 4bb and the other was a slow blast but thankfully developed into a 2bb on transfer day when they thawed it) we didn't go with the pgt testing as didn’t seem worth it especially since I used donor egg/sperm. The doctor actually reached out today and recommends we do implantation window testing (ERA test) and test for any chronic infections. This was actually a relief cos I feel there’s something else we can discover instead if trying FETs endlessly and just ‘hoping for the best’ cos that was my real worry.

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Blessed5510

that is good news to know they can check before the next one!! Stay positive!

We are waiting to get out results for our embryos. We purchased 10 donor eggs, 8 fertilized on Saturday and we will know how many will reach blast on Wednesday/Thursday. Then we are doing testing on them. This will be IVF #5 for us. Our last donor egg ended with a MC at 6 weeks. It was a tested normal blast, but we think we had sperm fragmentation issues. So this time we used the Zymot method in hopes we only get good sperm!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

It is such a long process, but it makes things better when you know the steps ahead. I wish you the best!

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Christianbaby

Sorry to hear this. Don't lose hope. xx

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