Sensitive Post - Failed 1st FET ivf - devestated

[IWant2BEaMommy]

Hi everyone. Yesterday after 10 days of waiting we got the result for our FET ivf. 10 days of dreams and hope and positive vibes and we got 0.1. I am devestated, words cannot describe the internal pain and sorrow I am feeling. I am 31 years old,i had two myomectomies with almost 40 fibroids removed in the past two years, which were one laparoscopy and one open surgery. 2 failed IUIs, a hysteroscopic diagnosis which was really good prior the transfer and 1 failed FET ivf. Everything seemed fine, my endo lining was thick, i used progesterone pressaries 3 x day, i wasnt stressed at all, i took 2 weeks off from work and i was lying down. I thought it would work out, even the doctor for the first time said that I have high chances and then we get the same result with my IUIs. Anyone else with fibroids removed and still managed to get pregnant with ivf? I am so worried because in these two years i havent seen a positive pregnancy.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi MissMickey. So sorry to read all this, after all the surgeries you've been through as well. I do hope you've got plenty of support around you just now. Yes, I have had quite a few ladies get pregnant to term following myomectomies, so the chance is there. perhaps try and settle back down to a cycle that is normal to you, then perhaps rethink about having another try. Thinking of you. Diane

[IWant2BEaMommy in reply to DianeArnold]

DianeArnold thank you for replying. I am so glad I found women who can understand what I am going through❤🍍 Normally, even though we ve been through so much, I am such a strong person and now I feel that I lost myself 💔😔 My heart is broken. But i wont give up. I have 7 frozen embryos waiting to come to their mommy. Thank you so so much for the support 🙏

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to IWant2BEaMommy]

Hi. And we will all be with you along the way. Gentle hugs. Diane