Late period feeling down

[ChloeL934]

Hi all,

So I’m 2 days late this month, thought maybe it’s my turn done a test and it’s come back negative as it always does😞

And I’m just sat feeling sorry for myself now thinking is it really ever going to happen for me now, we’ve been trying just over 3 years and not once has it happened.

I’m 25 and just wish I could have one child, thinking why me? What have I done?

I was suppose to have an op on 6th May to remove a cyst then go ahead with IVF and of course with everything going on that’s understandable but I just feel selfish in thinking I want this all over so I can start my journey.

I’m eating more healthy trying to have a balanced diet, I’m exercising daily taking my thyroid medication my vit d tablets and just feel like I’m not doing enough ☹️

[Hope25]

Hi Chloe, so sorry to hear your feeling low today Unfortunately, I can absolutely relate to how you are feeling. Its rubbish and there are no real words of wisdom I can give you, other then you have come to the right place here so many people know what your feeling and its safe to have low days and feel angry, jealous and just generally shitty

[Liz22]

Aw lovely this road is such a hard one. None of this is your fault don’t forget that - this added covid situation is so rubbish. It’s ok to feel down angry rubbish selfish ! Accept what you are feeling is ok. Massive virtual hug - keep talking about how u r feeling even if u feel like you are saying the same things over and over

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Chloe. So sorry to hear that you are feeling so upset. Yes, it will take a little while for clinics to be up and running properly again, but you are in their system, so I'm sure when they can, they will be in touch. Do keep in touch with your clinic, so they can give you some guidance as to how long your wait will be. Thinking of you. Diane

[LisaHarada]

Hey Chloe, so sorry this is tough. 😢😢😢 I have been in the same boat. I did IVF and was 2 days late, feeling excited that maybe my time has come, but then the test was negative. It is heartbreaking and I feel your pain. I feel the same way that maybe it will never happen for me. I have enough people telling me be patient it will happen so I'm not telling you that. 😔😔😔 Just know that you are not alone. Feel free to rant whenever you feel like, hope you feel better soon...