Heartbreak at late miscarriage after 7th transfer

[Georgie17]

Some of you know that I got my positive result on my 7th IVF transfer. I lost my precious most wanted baby this week at 17 weeks pregnancy. No words can explain how I am feeling and I don’t know why this happened. If anyone has been through such an ordeal and has any reasons to share to help me through this time, I would appreciate any support. Thank you xx

[Hidden]

I haven’t experienced a late loss ( only a CP) but wanted to say how sorry I am for your devastating loss, I cannot begin to imagine how you must be feeling ( especially after 12 weeks when you hope you are “safer”) I hope you have plenty of support around you xxx

[amandac84]

Oh Georgie. I don’t know what to say, heartbreaking. I’m just sending some love and well wishes for you at such a devastating time 😞 xxx

[Picalilli99]

I’m so so sorry. There really are no words. We haven’t experienced a late loss (our latest was 9 weeks) so can only imagine what you must be going through. Absolutely heartbreaking 💔. Sending you all my love. Here any time if you need support lovely xxx

[KiboXX]

Georgie I’m so so sorry to read this. I can’t imagine how devastated you are. I hope someone on here who has stood in your shoes can find the words to bring you some comfort. Sending you a big hug xxx

[Nix321]

I’m so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family x

[Shelleybean]

I’m so sorry to read this. You must be completely devastated 💔 Any loss is tragic, but for it to happen so late is just plain cruel.. life can be so unfair. Take good care and be kind to yourself. I hope you have good support around you to help give you the strength to get through this. You won’t ever forget your baby, but one day you will come out the other side. Sending lots of love 💕 xx

[Cinderella5]

Oh no Georgie! I'm so dreadfully sorry to see this and it makes me incredibly sad for you both!! No words will make you feel any better but we are here if you need anything. If you ever need to chat feel free to PM me. Sending lots of love & massive hugs.xxx

[Hidden]

Im so sorry Georgie. 17 weeks. What dreams you must haved. What tears you must gave cried. Lost mine at 5,5 weeks and im numb for days so cant imagine what i would be at 17. No words can take the pain away but i keep thinking of my lil embryo and have a picture and will cherish that for ever. I hope our love for our unborn ones somehow is fed in to the universe so they know we would have been very happy to hve them but it wasnt ment to be. The only thing we can do is keep trying. So keep strong keep going. Maybe not today but tomorrow will bring new chances x all my love x ❤️

[Georgie17 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you, it is so hard to comprehend. Infertility is so tough already and I never expected him to leave me so soon. X

[Hidden in reply to Georgie17]

Stay strong. Im saying this to both of us xx 💋

[bestthingsinlife]

thinking of you xxx

[Hidden]

Hello Georgie, so sorry about your loss. I have had a loss at 14wks and its the worst. A late miscarriage like that may be caused by an incompetent cervix, your doctors will have better answers.

The medical evacuation is terrible, what really broke me down was my breasts producing milk after it was done, you will probably be given medication for that, the breasts will get engorged and very painful then express milk. You will need people you love around you, it will be very tough. I wish you all the strength you need to pull through.

So so sorry, no one can feel it like you will, give yourself all the time you need

[Georgie17 in reply to Hidden]

I am so sorry to hear you also went through the same. I will ask about the cervix when I am ready to try again. It is so sad to think that something like this wasn’t picked up so save my baby boy. I am dreading breasts producing milk and what is to come but I am trying to be strong. Thank you for your support xx. Where are you on your journey? X

[Hidden in reply to Georgie17]

So sorry again Georgie I am thinking of you. I am currently pregnant (9weeks) but it's anxious times all over again because I have been bleeding all week, I won't know till my next scan in 8 days.

Try not to bottle your emotions it will erupt. Lean on the ones you love, I trust they will be there for you. And maybe get counselling if it's available to you.

Be kind to yourself, recovering is the most important thing right now. Sending you love and light.

PS: Brace yourself, the breast milk will most probably come, if you need any more info on dealing with that or just want to talk please don't hesitate to send a message.

[Core]

I am so so sorry to read this, I can only imagine how devastated you must be after working so hard to get pregnant it seems extra cruel to have been taken away. I’m sending you a huge virtual hug and hoping you have lots of support around you, here if you ever need to chat or rant xx

[Sammy246]

Hi Georgie I'm so sorry to read about your loss. I've recently had a mmc at 9 weeks so i now how heartbreaking it is to lose a baby. But at 17 weeks when you think the baby is more safter to reach full term is devestating . Sending you a big hug xx

[Georgie17 in reply to Sammy246]

So sorry for your loss. I am taking each day as it comes and I don’t know how we get through such a hard experience. Lots of love to you too xx

[Sammy246 in reply to Georgie17]

I had my medical management yesterday so I feel very raw at the moment. I know we women are warriors and we will somehow get through this. But will never forget our Angels xx

[Georgie17 in reply to Sammy246]

We won’t forget them. They were part of us whatever the length of time and we felt hope and happiness to have them with us. Take care lovely xx

[Corchi]

I’m so so so sorry for your heartbreak and loss. I have been down that road many a time (6 to be exact) and I feel your pain and shock. Time is your only friend and love ... surround yourself with love xxxx

[Georgie17 in reply to Corchi]

Thank you and so sorry that this has happened multiple times for you. Xx

[Corchi]

Have they given you any indication why this happened ?

[Georgie17 in reply to Corchi]

I don’t have any idea yet, could have been an infection or something else but will wait for a post Mortem x

[Corchi in reply to Georgie17]

Send you so much love ❤️

[Tiddly1984]

I’m so sorry Georgie, that’s devastating. I don’t know what to say other than that life can be cruel and wish things could have been different for you. Take care of yourself and I hope that you have the best people around you offering you comfort, strength and support. 💐x

[Luna_79]

Ah gosh this is so heartbreaking to read, so so sorry for your loss and hope you are surrounded by love at what must be an incredibly difficult time xx

[Hidden]

I am so sorry to read this, I hope you have a strong network around you to support you. Be kind to yourself. Life is very cruel. I hope in time you get some answers xx