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BPN feel so low

Got the call today am trying to hold it together until I get home so I can collapse

Feel so broken and numb

Been having this tension headache for a few days can't shake it off

Can't face reality am a nurse and feel I have lost all compassion and care at the mo

I know this will pass but now it's so raw

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Noah1981

So sorry that it wasn’t your time this time round I hope you find the strength to carry on maybe just take some you time give your body a rest and try again lots of love for you xxxx

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HopeTTC18

I’m so sorry. I had my BFN last week and it’s awful. Allow yourself some time to grieve. Hugs x

I'm so sorry. It will work out for you! The universe will make it so. xo

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runsoncuddles

I'm very sorry that you got a negative, it's a lot to take in and process. Please be kind to yourself xx

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry! It's so hard getting a BFN, take some time to grieve and gather your strength. Do whatever you need to do to feel a little but better, eat, cry, drink....plan a treat for yourself for when you're feeling a bit better. Hugs.xx

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Fellow-IVFer

I am so so sorry to hear this 😔 Lots of love and hugs ❤

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Rowly88

So sorry to hear this, sending you big hugs and lots of love during this difficult time xxx

I'm sorry you didn't get the news you hoped for. It's gutting isn't it when you get your hopes up over something only to have it result in nothing.

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Hanneesweedie

😢 sorry to hear that! xx

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Core

So sorry to read this, I had a BFN yesterday and it’s heartbreaking, I think time is the only thing that heals it. I hope you have lots of support around you xx

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LunaLovegood11

Very sorry to read this. Understandably you won’t have spare compassion for others at the moment and that’s allowed. Thinking of you xx

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NB610

I’m sorry to hear this, I’ll never forget the feeling of my ivf failing, it was horrendous, I felt so low and you felt like I couldn’t lick myself up, as the weeks went on each day I began to feel better and stronger. Just take one day at a time xx

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