7dp5dt negative frer😢 update 9dp5dt BFN....

[Littlebird77]

This morning we decided to test because I thought it would be better to know so being bank holiday would have some time to cry off. Now I feel empty and sad. I had a good feeling about this round but then...we can't afford another icsi so we need to accept that is the end of the road. I can't face going to work tomorrow this is so hard....

Update* 9dp5dt stark white nothing. Today will call the clinic so I can stop my pessaries, progesterone is killing me from moody to crying...want to feel normal again. Thanks for your support girls, really appreciate. Xxx

[Aleelilook]

Oh lovely you have tested far too early, don’t give up hope just yet xx

[Tugsgirl]

It’s still early. Hold onto a little bit of hope. I think the earliest a bfp is detectable (as a general rule) is 9dp xx

[lucylob]

It’s definately to early to detect. I had my egg transfer 9 days ago and I’m due to test on Wednesday! I have the tests in my bedroom ready and as much as I want to test, I am waiting until weds! Don’t give up faith yet, retest in a few days when you are meant too ! Best of luck to you 🤞

[Littlebird77 in reply to lucylob]

I'm not sure if is that early. The result is completly blank. Will do another test tomorrow although I'm dredding seeing another negative! How you manage to not test?? My last icsi round i tested 9 dp5dt...I got a clear positive so I thought that by now it will show a faint line...

[lucylob in reply to Littlebird77]

I don’t want to test early incase it’s a false result that’s all! It’s my first round of icsi! Today is my 9dp5dt so only two more days to wait! Fingers crossed! And best of luck with you 🤞🤞

[Littlebird77 in reply to lucylob]

Yes good luck for you too!!!

[Kvelvetrose]

I'm so sorry to hear this, I don't know much about it but from the other comments it may be too soon to tell. I will keep everything crossed for you x

[Coqa]

Hi, when is the date that the clinic ask you to test? You may try to test 2 days before but more than that will be useless because your body haven’t had time to produce the hormones Following the embryo implant. Be patient the embryo doesn’t know anything about bank holidays, wait and hopefully everything is going to be fine, don’t cry that the battle is not ended for you yet!!! Good luck 🍀

[Littlebird77 in reply to Coqa]

My clinic said to test on the 30th...today is 28th...so i thought that if positive will show a faint line...but is completly blank...we have been the whole day feeling sorry for ourselves...Maybe we should have waited...but the wait is terrible...we have been the last few years focus on treatments, recovering from miscarrige, and now not sure we have more energy to carry on. Sorry to be so negative but I can't see it...thanks for your mesages it's nice to know that we are not alone on this.x

[abcgirl in reply to Littlebird77]

It does seem early to test. But Best of luck and hope your test is positive when you test again.

It sounds like your clinic already gave you an early-ish test date. My OTD was 15dp5dt... super conservative so I tested 3 days early at 12dp5dt. But it was still further along and in line with when most clinics say to test

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[abcgirl in reply to Littlebird77]

It does seem early to test. But Best of luck and hope your test is positive when you test again.

It sounds like your clinic already gave you an early-ish test date. My OTD was 15dp5dt... super conservative so I tested 3 days early at 12dp5dt. But it was still further along and in line with when most clinics say to test

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[Hidden]

So sorry 😢 I really hope the result changes by test day 🙏🏼 It’s good to prepare yourself mentally and you could be pleasantly surprised 🤞🏼 I had the reverse issue 3 times, bfp with frer 5 days post 5 day transfer only to be told by bloods that levels had dropped and I had 3 chemical pregnancies. One of my 4 bfp’s didn’t show up until test day so there’s still every chance things could change xxx

[Littlebird77 in reply to Hidden]

Oh your experience sounds pretty disheartening too...really sorry. In my last round actually got pregnant and I miscarried at 10 weeks. I think I'm still mourning for that baby...Just sliped out and I felt powerless...nothing i could do...now thinking maybe never get pregnant again....Thanks for sharing your story...each of us seem like going on a particular and painful experience...thanks for being here the journey can feel quite lonely.

[Hidden in reply to Littlebird77]

Bless you!! So hard losing a baby, sometimes it hits out of the blue, other times when I see a scan pic (my most painful loss was my first and my third at 14 weeks 😢) Please don’t give up!!! You can and have been pregnant and you will again, it’s not gameover yet this cycle 🙏🏼. I’ve had 6 consecutive losses including 3 chemicals and 3 missed miscarriages but i’m Pregnant now at 45 so there is always hope if you stay strong and keep trying!! Sending lots of love and strength your way 😘xxx

[Littlebird77 in reply to Hidden]

Thank Natalia definitely you are the best!! your strength admirable. Congratulations for pregnancy i hope everything goes fine this time because you deserve it! Big hug!!

[Hidden in reply to Littlebird77]

Thanks so much lovely 😘 taking it one step at a time 🙏🏼. Thinking of you and always here. Message me anytime xxx

[Cinderella5]

It defo could be too early, I guess thats the crap bit of testing early....knocks the wind right out of your sails! Fingers crossed for a change!xx

[emu2016]

Definitely might be a bit early,... it’s OTD for a reason! Crossing everything that it’s a better outcome tomorrow. Don’t lose hope just yet x

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry to hear this and for your previous miscarriage. This is very very hard and I do hope you test again today or tomorrow and the result changes. Sending you huge hugs 😘 xxxx

[Hidden]

U have tested too early hun, just wait a little while and stay positive ok. I tested 10dp5dt even when my blood test was 9dp which was an holiday.

[Louhanlon]

I know it’s hard not too test too early . We went through icsi treatment . Don’t give up need to wait longer . All the best test think I remember nine days past since transfer they usually give u a date for the test I know it’s hard to wait . Please don’t give up hope

[mimisquiz77]

Oh dear... I also believe it is too early. My understanding is that It takes time for the pregnancy hormones to show a reasonable level in your blood in order to be picked up by the pregnancy test. I think you should wait and test again. Don’t give up. If you don’t have your period, there is still a chance. I will keep my fingers crossed for you and hope it will turn out to be positive. Take care. best of luck 💖

[Lynne496]

I think you should wait and try again in a few days. I tested on OTD which was 10p5dt and the result was negative and was told to test again 48hrs later and got a positive result.

[Hidden in reply to Lynne496]

I know this is old BUT youvegiven me do much hope!!!! Thank you xx

[Moving]

I am not to knowledgeable on this but am keeping my fingers crossed for you... hopefully your time will come xx

[Sarahlou01]

Don’t give up just yet. I didn’t get a positive result until 10 dp 5dt and when I rang my clinic they told me not to test again until 13 dpt as it was too early. Sending lots of love xxx

[Kvelvetrose]

Hey Little bird, I'm just wondering how you are doing? X

[Littlebird77 in reply to Kvelvetrose]

Not feeling very well. Has been a hard blow the negative result. Now we will need time to recover. 😢 thanks for asking lovely.