Onwards and upwards

[amandac84]

OTD was today, in my heart I knew it was a BFN before our weekend in Amsterdam but I stuck to it and didn’t drink, enjoyed time with friends and then tested this morning to have it confirmed. I’m

Only at IUI number 3 but I’ve cried all day long I just feel so deflated and disappointed. But we pick ourselves up dust our selves off and continue. What else is there to do!! Xx

[purplerain2000]

Hi Amanda, sorry to hear about your unfortunate news. It is so hard when you keep up with all the no drinking, healthy eating and maintain that focus in the hope that everything has worked. When it doesn't it is a real blow and takes some time to process what you have been through, you will however pick yourself up.

To be honest this has happened to me 4 times and you think it will get easier and it simply doesn't get easier however it does make you really focus on what you want in the future. Be kind to yourself, take time out and be around people that make you feel good.

Then you can recharge your batteries and think about your options moving forward. I had a week in Tenerife it worked a treat... I hope you feel better soon and warmest thoughts go out to you at such a heartbreaking time xxx

[Kitcat12]

😞 sorry to hear this lovely. Look after yourself x

[Doglover7866]

Going through similar so my heart goes out to you. My BFN was yesterday xx

[amandac84 in reply to Doglover7866]

I’m sorry for you too. Take its easy on yourself. Keep strong xx

[runsoncuddles]

I'm so sorry Amanda, sending you lots of hugs x

[amandac84]

I know. I’m so sorry for you too! Xx

[gemmy999]

I’m so sorry to hear this. There was a run of BFP and now seems like we’re all getting BFN. Take care of yourself 😢💔🤗 xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this Amanda. The most important thing to do is take the time out to heal. If you can, taking some time off work really does help. I am sure you will get there. In the meantime big hugs to you- and go have a massive glass of wine or whatever drink is your preferred xxx

[amandac84 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much. I have taken today off just to have some time to myself xx

[Cinderella5]

Sorry to hear your result! Glad you were able to enjoy yourself away. Be kind to yourself now and have a few treats, hugs.xx