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After brown spotting and cramping and crying.....

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....today on 10dp5dt, I came home from work and tested. It’s positive! I’m in shock! I’ve never had a BFP in my life! I started trying for a baby 5 years ago. This is our 7th embryo. It’s our third cycle. Even with cramps, twinges, brown spotting, it can still happen - the double lines! I cried with happiness xxx

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HollieW

Congratulations! I had cramping and spotting when I had my BFP so you never can tell. I'm so pleased for you xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to HollieW

Thank you so much Hollie xxx

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CatDV

This is amazing news!!!

I had everything crossed for you

I am so happy you had your first BFP!

Congratulations!!

Wishing you a long and happy pregnancy

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Scarlett13 in reply to CatDV

Thank you so much, I’m so happy xxx

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Lisaworthy1981

Omg massive congratulations to you both! Amazing news xxxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Lisaworthy1981

Thanks Lisa! I’m still so crampy!! But happy xxx

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Lisaworthy1981 in reply to Scarlett13

I was like that for a while, and still can be at bit now so don’t worry too much!! Sooooo happy for you xxx

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Se99

Congratulations!!!!x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Se99

Thank you! Xxx

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AJJ123

Congratulations xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to AJJ123

Thank you xxx

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Mainecoonfan

That's fantastic news!

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Scarlett13 in reply to Mainecoonfan

Thank you!!!! Hope you’re holding up ok with your OHSS? Xxx

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Mainecoonfan in reply to Scarlett13

Still there. Genuinely never been this bloated before so I'm off to buy more leggings and tights since my jeans only fit if I don't button them 🙈

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Olivia1980xxx

Massive congratulations hun xxx I think cramping and brown spotting is good sign...I had that with my second cycle which I have baby girl. Huge congratulations. Enjoy your pregnancy and please keep us updating xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Olivia1980xxx

Thank you, and thanks for the reassurance - it just feels so much like AF us about to start but I have to try so hard to trust that it’s not xxx

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Drives

Aww loved reading this post!! So happy for you 😍 congratulations x x x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Drives

Thank you so much!!!!! X

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Dreamingofbaby

Yay congratulations to you. That awesome. X

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Scarlett13 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thank you 🍍❤️😊

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MonicaTk

Congratulations to you

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Scarlett13 in reply to MonicaTk

Thank you Monny x

So pleased for you!!!!!!!

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Aw thank you so much, really appreciate you messaging me x

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Kari55

Oh I’m so pleased for you! This is great news xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Kari55

Thank you! We are delighted! X

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Kari55 in reply to Scarlett13

I bet you are! All the best for next steps x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Kari55

Thank you - the next scary bit! X

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Kari55 in reply to Scarlett13

Will you need to do another urine test on Monday or blood test?

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Scarlett13 in reply to Kari55

Another blood test...then I don’t know what next as never got this far before - I’m guessing we book in for an ultrasound in a few weeks x

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Kari55 in reply to Scarlett13

Some clinics scan once at 7 weeks, mine scans twice at 6 and 8 weeks.

Yes, we know so much about the process of ivf and conceiving and then suddenly a whole new, unknown chapter opens up. X

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kirstyblue

Oh I’m absolutely made up for you! Congratulations! By the way, I also had cramping and spotting before my BFP.

If you are using pessaries, these can cause spotting just so you are aware and don’t panic too much if you get more.

Congratulations again and take care xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to kirstyblue

Thanks Kirsty! I’m on lubion injections though not pessaries. It’s so weird that I’m pregnant yet it feels so much like AF is due! Xxx

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kirstyblue in reply to Scarlett13

It does feel like that at first. Enjoy every moment x

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Scarlett13 in reply to kirstyblue

Thank you xxx

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Tugsgirl

Congratulations on your bfp. Ours is our 7th embie too, hopefully yours will be as lucky 🍀 xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Tugsgirl

Yay another lucky 7 I hope xxxx thank you

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Jenjen84

Amazing news! Huge congratulations! Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Jenjen84

Thanks Jen, congrats to you too lovely and get well soon xxx

Congratulations!!!!x

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Thank you!!!! X

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Sarah_37

Huge congratulations!!! Hope all goes well xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Sarah_37

Thank you Sarah, I can’t believe it! X

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3005

Fantastic news! Massive congratulations xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to 3005

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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hannahding

Congratulations! I am so happy that things worked out for you. Stay positive and strong. I hope things go well for you. Its all about staying positve and strong. I am proud of you. Recently I also got my first BFP. I was over the moon.

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Scarlett13 in reply to hannahding

Hi Hannah, thank you!!!! Did you get a natural BFP? I know you had unexplained infertility. Congratulations to you too xxx

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Lou7744

Amazing news!! Soo chuffed for you 💕 xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Lou7744

Thanks Lou xxx

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Kirmie

This is lovely news. Congratulations 😊

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Scarlett13 in reply to Kirmie

Thanks Kirmie ❤️🍍👍

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Core

Amazing! Congratulations so happy for you, gives hope to me to keep going xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Core

Thanks core - I was starting to doubt if this would ever happen. I had to have 2 surgeries before ivf too. It’s been a long hard journey, I just hope and pray that it continues to go well now. Thanks for your message and never give up - it’s been hard having so many BFNs but so glad we kept on going xxx

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ALLY81

Congratulations xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to ALLY81

Thank you xxx

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Niki_B

Yaaaaaaaaay!! Massive massive congrats to you hunny!! Woohoo!! Enjoy this moment as it feels so surreal doesnt it. So so happy for you! 🙌🙌😍😘💕 xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Niki_B

Awwww thanks Niki! It really does feel surreal...what?! It’s our turn?! This is real?! 2 lines?! So shocked. So pleased. Thanks for your lovely words and support xxx

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Niki_B in reply to Scarlett13

So surreal isn't it! How long have we waited to see those lines it's a shock when they appear! Nice dark line too hun! I'm 5+2 today and still cannot believe it! I'm just praying everything goes well at 7 week scan 🙏🙏💕 xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Niki_B

Good luck for scan - is the 7 week scan the first or second? No idea how they work out how many weeks along we are.... enjoy your moment - everything will be fine and lovely xxx

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Niki_B in reply to Scarlett13

1st scan. My clinic actually dont do another one, if everything is fine at the first scan tehybrelease you from the clinic onto your GP and a midwife! Which means I wont get another scan until week 10 or 11 unless I pay privately...which I might have to do! On my OTD at 14dpt I was exactly 4 weeks xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so over the moon for you. Congratulations!!

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Scarlett13 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thank you! That’s lovely xxx

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Purpledazzle27

Woohoo! Brilliant news! So pleased for you. Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Purpledazzle27

It so is! I’m beyond happy today after such a negative sad day leading up to the test xxx

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Purpledazzle27 in reply to Scarlett13

I had spotting at 9dp5dt and thought it may be over but was just little one making a home xx

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Strawberrychaos

Aww congratulations hun, I had red blood spotting and bad cramping and got my bfp and he is now 8 months old 🥰xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Strawberrychaos

Oh thank you so much, and that’s reassuring to know! Xxxx so pleased you’ve got your baby!!! X

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Hope76

Fantastic it is your time at long last you so deserve your BFP. Huge congratulations x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Hope76

Thanks sooooo much xxxxx

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Robins53

Well done for your resilience and huge congrats xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Robins53

Thanks, that’s really sweet of you x

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WaltzingWonder

YAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!! This is amazing news Scarlett!!! Congratulations to you both!!! Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to WaltzingWonder

Thank you WW!!! I was being positive up until today - I was so convinced it was over then so shocked to get 2 lines! Thanks for your support xxx

Congratulations 😍. I had cramping and spotting till week 10 and now have a gorgeous 17 month old. Wishing you a happy healthy 9 months xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to littlemisstired80

Awwwww congrats on your lovely toddler and miracle! Thanks for your reassuring words too. I’m so happy!!! X

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Cinderella5

Wahhhhh I'm super excited for you honey!! You massively deserve this.....yippppppeeeeeee!!🙌🙌👏💖🤗xxxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks Cinders!!!!! It’s such a surreal feeling, was wondering if this would ever ever happen for us...cloud 9 - thanks for your lovely words as always, you’re an inspiration to us allxxx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Scarlett13

Aww you're too kind!😘 So the magic question is....did you do anything different this time apart from the lubion or just luck?! I know I got a BFP last time for the first time but just in case there is anything I can do for the future?!xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Cinderella5

I used lubion twice before. I didn’t do anything different apart from enjoying the 2ww more - I booked the whole 2ww off and spent a week with my parents here doing nice things so was more distracted and relaxed than normal. Had a brand new lady do my scratch and a brand new doctor do my transfer?! X

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Cinderella5 in reply to Scarlett13

Wow so nothing in particular then. I reckon this whole thing is down to luck these days!!xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Cinderella5

Yeah no major differences, maybe it’s my first genetically normal embryo? Never had PGS so don’t know! X

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AnnieAnnie

Congratulations! They are some strong lines xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to AnnieAnnie

Thanks so much!!! For a day 10 afternoon I was surprised to see any lines, especially such dark ones! Thanks so much xxx

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AnnieAnnie in reply to Scarlett13

Wow an afternoon too! That's great. Your perseverance and fight to realise your dream has paid off. So pleased for you xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to AnnieAnnie

Thank you xxx

Aww I’m delighted to read your wonderful news congratulations 🙌🏻It is a shock after a long time of TTC!We were TTC for 7 years & I still cant believe we got our miracle ( I’m 30 weeks pregnant!) Wishing you the very best with your pregnancy ✨❤️💞👶🏻 Enjoy this moment it’s so magical xoxo

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Thanks Jess, I’ve seen all your posts for a while now, you’re a great inspiration and congrats xxxx and thank you xxx

in reply to Scarlett13

Aww thank you that’s very kind of you to say. I couldn’t have got through this journey without this site it kept me going through the difficult times. Stories of success gave me hope 😍🌟💗 All he best 💗xoxo

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Olderwiser

Congrats on your first BFP! How exciting x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Olderwiser

Thanks so much!!! X

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Noah1981

Oh wow well done congratulations now sit back relax and enjoy it’s the best feeling in the world xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Noah1981

It really is xxx thank you

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Megaleg

This was an awesome post to wake up and see! Congratulations! Have my 3rd FET tomorrow and positive stories give me hope 🤗 All the best for your scan x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Megaleg

Thank you so much!!!!! That’s a sweet message and all the best for your FET. This was my 3rd FET ❤️

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Novice_knitter

Massive congratulations Scarlett - absolutely delighted for you 😃

I’m 9+6 - first BFP in 5yrs of trying and one previous cycle. I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw that magic second line appearing! Never thought it could happen and imagine you’re feeling absolutely bowled over!

Have a wonderful weekend celebrating. Ps - I had lots of cramps in my 2ww and they continued for another few weeks quite regularly so your current symptoms may remain for a while yet.

Good luck and will look out for your updates xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Novice_knitter

Thanks NK!!!!! It’s crazy to see 2 lines after so long isn’t it xxx all the best for your pregnancy x

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Girlmeetsworld

Wonderful news! Many congrats! Xxxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Girlmeetsworld

Thanks!!! X

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mimisquiz77

Congratulations!!, that’s great news! 🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻X

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Scarlett13 in reply to mimisquiz77

Thanks a lot xxxxx

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Littleflower82

Omg this is lovely news, what a class picture too. So delighted for u, a tough journey to get there, but I'm sure it's well worth every step to c those 2 lines xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Littleflower82

It’s totally worth all the pain and heartache when it finally works. Thanks so much xxx

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Micsing

Congratulations! So happy for you.

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Scarlett13 in reply to Micsing

Thanks!!!! Xxx

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CJones40

Huge congratulations!! Good luck and hope you have a smooth pregnancy!! Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to CJones40

Me too ❤️ thanks sooooo much xxxx

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Lindt83

Congratulations Scarlett! You totally deserve it after everything you've been through. I hope you have a great pregnancy and enjoy the weekend sharing the exciting news with family and friends xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Lindt83

Thanks so much, it’s so exciting sharing the news, I’m ecstatic xxx

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MrsH007

Wow 😍 you must feel on top of the world 🙏🏻

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Scarlett13 in reply to MrsH007

I really do!!! Thank you xxx

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Pozzag83

Aww Scarlett, this is fantastic news. Congratulations, enjoy every minute xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Pozzag83

Thanks so much xxxx

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Kimmytube

A massive congratulations 🥰

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Scarlett13 in reply to Kimmytube

Thank you!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Congratulations 😊😊 I had spotting with my BFP and was sure it hadn't worked. Even more of a surprise when it did 😊😊😊😊 x xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Such a surprise!!!!! Xxxx

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Tomorrow_1

Congratulations! That's wonderful news! I also had cramping and spotting with my BFP - I think it's pretty common, actually. Wishing you a very happy and healthy 9 months!

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Scarlett13 in reply to Tomorrow_1

Thanks so much for your reassuring words xxx

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Blondie_81

This is amazing so pleased for you. I’ve just had my fourth egg collection (on wed) cycle no 4 and waiting for an update call for a hopeful day 5 transfer on Monday which will be my fifth transfer (6th embryo). Like you I’ve never ever had a BFP so we’re really praying this is our time. This post brings me hope as we have similar stories. Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Blondie_81

Very similar - it can and will happen - I was starting to doubt but it can sneak up on you and boom!!!!!! X

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Blondie_81 in reply to Scarlett13

Thanks. Wishing you all the best you totally deserve this x

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Scarlett13 in reply to Blondie_81

Thank you, you do too xxx

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leanneski

Congratulations💖 xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to leanneski

Thank you xxx

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Babyjoshua

Wow congratulation dats great

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Scarlett13 in reply to Babyjoshua

Thank you!!!! X

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Gertiee

Congrats, honey!!! This is phenomenal news. I'm so happy for you. You've managed to go through such a tough TTC. It's great to see everything worked out for you. You've definitely deserved it, love! What a feeling it must be!

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Scarlett13 in reply to Gertiee

Thank you for your lovely message xxxxx

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lorraineb61

❤❤❤❤ xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to lorraineb61

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️x

YAY!!!!!!! SO happy for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Thank you!!!

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sunflowers2019

Wow congratulations Scarlett, that's fantastic news!!! I also got a BFP yesterday :)

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Scarlett13 in reply to sunflowers2019

Oh my goodness!!!! Congratulations back to you!!!! And thank you!!!!! Xxxx

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everhopeful83

Congratulations 😍❤️xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to everhopeful83

Thank you xxx

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Leesalou

Omg I’ve literally just pm to ask how you was and if you tested,

I’m so happy for you I really am you truly deserve this,

That is a strong line

Wow congratulations how exciting

Xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Leesalou

Thank you!!!!!!!! I’m over the moon at last xxxxxx

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Leesalou in reply to Scarlett13

Wishing you all the best throughout your pregnancy 🤰

You thought the 2ww was long the wait to the scan is longer lol 😂 xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Leesalou

I’m already anxious but trying not to be!

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Leesalou in reply to Scarlett13

It is hard really is, i was it my whole pregnancy, constantly worried & thought the worst, xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Leesalou

Understandable with what we’ve been through to get here x

That is one STRONG BFP line !!! Congratulations Xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Thank you!!!!!! Xxx

Congratulations!!! So happy for you xxxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to

Thank so much xxx

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AS100

Yay congratulations!!! 🙌 was looking out for your update! Very happy for you 😍 hanks for the inspiration 💪 xxx

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Scarlett13 in reply to AS100

I’m glad I’m able to inspire you, can’t believe I’m now one of those people, didn’t think this was going to happen, thank you xxx

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Nuszkahope

Congratulations Scarlett x very happy for you 😘 I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Nuszkahope

Thanks so much xxx

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Apples2665

Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy! Xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Apples2665

Thanks so much!!! Xxx

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Clover5

That’s great news, I’m so pleased for you! Wishing you all the best for a happy healthy pregnancy 😊💕xx

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Scarlett13 in reply to Clover5

Thanks clover xx

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