Next Cycle

[DanniiJean]

Hi ladies, had the worst news ever today, the bleed I had at 5 weeks pregnant was indeed a miscarriage. I need to try and focus on my next move. I have nothing left frozen so need to start again. Looking at local clinics and found one that does an unlimited package or your money back. Anyone else done this with their clinic? Also due to male problems (little slow and a little low) we went through ICSI. Male side increased with change of lifestyle and wellman vitamins. Any other vitamins you could recommend? Honestly devastated, feel like I’m such a failure to my amazing wonderful partner, x

[staaa88]

I’m so sorry to hear this 😓 xxx

[DanniiJean in reply to staaa88]

Words can’t describe, how do you wonderful ladies get through this?? I’m going to get totally wasted on vodka and wine just to try and dumb this pain tonight. I know it’s still going to be there in the morning but I can’t do anything else x

[Cinderella5]

Awww honey, this is not your fault! I have been in your position and there is no way in the world that your OH would want you to feel like this is your fault. I don't really know how you get through it but you will. We had a little memorial of our own. Put a rose from my valentines bouquet in the garden & we are looking at choosing something like a windmill to put in the garden. Do whatever you need to right now, anything is ok! Hold onto each other so tightly, that is the most important thing of all!! We also have poor sperm but unfortunately we can't improve it so no advice on that side!xxx

[Lots8788]

Ah hun,so sorry to hear this. You're amazing an not a failure at all! there was nothing you could or should have done or not do to prevent this and it is not your fault x big hugs x

Hubby has poor SA results but having taken wellman and then moving on to fertilsan it's improved with each test.

Take it easy x lots of love to you x

[Lou7744]

I’m so, so sorry to read this. Please don’t blame yourself, what has happened was totally out of your hands. It’s all so very raw now, take each day as it comes.

Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

[2-shades-of-hope]

I’m so sorry, it is so sad. I’m doing the 3 egg collections and if no baby then you get a full refund package. I would say to consider whether you want to stay with your clinic for that long if it does take you the full amount of collections/ transfers to baby. I loved my clinic to begin with but after one failed transfer and two miscarriages my patience with their nursing team in particular has been tested and I’d really love to change clinic but I’m stuck with them because of the package .

[Southeast28]

Oh gosh I’m so so sorry to read this I was really hoping that everything would be okay. You really are not to blame for this though. Take some time, be kind to yourself and do whatever you need to get through it 💕 xxx

[aamiller405]

So sorry to read this.. Take care of yourself xo

[Hidden]

I haven’t been on here all weekend but am very sorry to hear your sad news. Definitely not your fault in anyway you haven’t let anyone down please don’t feel like that , unfortunately sometimes embryos just aren’t right ( usually a chromosome issue) & there was nothing more you could’ve done. Chemical pregnancy are horrible I had one in 2017.But just because that embryo wasn’t okay doesn’t mean that another one wouldn’t be. Unfortunately chemical pregnancy is quite common time to lose a pregnancy 😢 I’m now 36 weeks pregnant (I fell after my third surgery to treat endometriosis) I hope that’s can offer you some hope. ✨ I can’t offer you advice on package deals but wish you good luck with the next cycle when you feel ready to go again. Hope you have lots of support around you xoxo

[Elynn]

So sorry, heal well 🌻🌷🌼