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Waiting game.....

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Just feeling like i am wishing my life away at the moment, I am so caught up in counting down to the next appointment, scan, cycle that i have literally wished away the last three months of my life! I am still waiting to start my first FET after egg collection on 23rd Jan, which went really well and we have got 10 frosties. I guess i just want this to happen so badly that i am driving myself insane with counting down to dates that may or may not happen, arrghhhhhh!!!!

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It’s really hard not to wish your life away. Try to plan some stuff that you wouldn’t do with a baby, that’s what we did and it helped. For example we went to London to see the cursed child and we went to latitude festival. With ten Frosties I’m sure your future family is in there sinewhere

in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Thank you, we have decided to book a couple of things so we have something to look forward too and a different reason for counting down the days

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Yes!! I have felt a little like that (on and off) for the last 2 years! You have to make fun plans to distract you and do things with your OH to make sure your relationship also stays on track. Fingers crossed with your 10 frosties :-) x

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thanks, we literally had this conversation last night and rather than googling IVF today i have been googling bands to go and see :) xx

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Excellent that sounds like a very positive use of time, well done :-) x

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