Why is Christmas time so hard?

[sarahharas]

I am really sorry but this Christmas is aweful for me. It seems to be that all people want to disclose teir secrets during Christmas time. I had quite some messages yesterday from people I had not seen in a while, sending me Christmas pictures with 'decorated' babies.

I felt already quite dowm yesterday morning. I remembered last year when I felt bad and we told us that next year will be our happy christmas as the new treatment just must work. This year, we are 9 2wws and 9 BFN further but and telling us the same for next year. How many christmas like this are still coming?

Plus I am just in my 2ww again - this is just cruel over Christmas!

Anyway, merry Christmas to all of you, and I am truely happy for each and everyone here who had their miracle happening

xx

[TerryNaples]

Merry Christmas to you too, dear! It’s a very difficult time, I know. But keep being strong for the little one. You can do it!

I’ll pray for your positive outcome. New year, new hope, new miracles!

I’m with you! Xxx

[sarahharas in reply to TerryNaples]

Thank you At some point it must be us, right? xx

[TerryNaples in reply to sarahharas]

Exactly! Believe it! Xxx

[Hidden]

Such a difficult journey you’ve been on. Hang on in there. Try and find some positivity in something today.

[sarahharas in reply to Hidden]

THank you I try to relax and think ahead. xx

[Hidden]

You can be glad for them and wouldn't wish them harm but also be sorry for your own situation.

[hannahding]

Hey, I can very much relate with you. It is the same for us as well. I always dread the day. Mainly because so many questions are asked and it just makes me so uncomfortable. However, I try to occupy myself with my phone or something to avoid the questions. We are going to be starting IVF soon currently in the waiting list. Good luck to you. I hope you are soon able to conceive.

[Dunla]

Merry Christmas and wishing you the best of luck for OTD. You have been through so much and are thoroughly deserving of happiness xx