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These waiting time is killing me... hardly no symptoms... is it over?

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Hi lovely ladies,

Once again I need a bit of support.

I had FET last week. I am due for test next week. Since the transfer I have experienced little symptoms. Just period pain like but for some reasons only in the afternoon. Is it normal? Does it means it’s over? This is driving me mad. I feel like crying every morning. I don’t really sleep at night. I went back to work as staying at home was driving me insane.

I welcome your experience (good or bad).

Is anybody feeling the same?

Thanks for reading me and for your support

Good luck with your treatment

💖

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MissSaoPaulo

It's definitely not over - browse through the posts on here and you'll see, we all get to the halfway stage and fall into this feeling of despair!!

Symptoms can be a good or bad sign and no symptoms can also be good or bad, there's no way to know so try not to let it drive you crazy (much easier said than done!!)

So hang on in there and definitely don't give up hope!!

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mimisquiz77 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thank you very much for your support. I know you are right but hearing it from someone else is always better. Where are you in your treatment? 💖

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MissSaoPaulo in reply to mimisquiz77

I got a positive last week. And I was convinced it hadn't worked as no symptoms except sore boobs. Seriously, I was planning a weekend of getting drunk, eating sushi and going to the gym (maybe not in that order!!)

Keep your chin up and best of luck xxx

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mimisquiz77 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Wow! Congratulations on your BFP!!! What a wonderful news🎉🎉🎉🎉 I am really happy for you. Thanks again for giving me hope. Take care xxx

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Klndmr

I can't really experienced the waiting game yet as im about to start my first cycle soon. But from what i have red don't lose hope and don't drive yourself crazy. Try to stay busy and do things that make you feel good. And don't lose hope just yet. Don't give up hope but try and stay as positive as you can. Sending you millions hugs and i hope with all my heart i will read about a positive outcome. ❤❤❤❤

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mimisquiz77 in reply to Klndmr

Hi,

Thank you so much for your support and advice. It means a lot to me. Good luck with your treatment. I hope it will go smoothly. I am here if you need to talk. Take care 💖

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Klndmr in reply to mimisquiz77

Thank youbso much. ❤❤❤❤xx

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Alisha79

Hi Mimisquiz77,I'm also In my 2ww and no obvious symptoms. Just been feeling pain around my left ovary and sensitive nipples. My breast were very sore but that's all gone one morning which worries me. But I have read a lot of ppl don't have any or many symptoms but get their bfp. Don't lose hope. It's not over until AF comes :). Chin up 🙂

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mimisquiz77 in reply to Alisha79

Hi Alisha79, thanks for your support. I hope you will get a BFP soon 🤞🤞🤞🤞 I hope that we will be one of them. Take care and best of luck xxx

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Fareena1904

Hi Mimisquiz77. Can’t imagine that is the worst time (waiting period) going through all the hurdles & getting through to this stage .🤞🤞hopefully you will get a positive result.

I am just on day 9 of stimming & going insane & anxious for scan on Thursday as just waiting for the next step. Still got all the waiting for other stages to go through yet X

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mimisquiz77 in reply to Fareena1904

Hi Fareens2904,

Thanks for your support. It is such a stressful process... best of luck for your scan on Thursday 🤞🤞🤞🤞xxx

2WW are so tough. I haven’t done IVF I imagine that would be worse!

I had no symptoms at all - any I might have had could have easily been period coming! The early pregnancy symptoms vs pms are the same & difficult to tell apart- I couldn’t! I even had what I thought was period cramping 3 days before my period was due & it was implantation cramps! I couldn’t tell the difference! I was sure my period was coming but it didn’t show up & im now 13 weeks pregnant. I can tell you it’s definitely not over yet!

I wish you the best&hope it’s good news on otd 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻✨✨✨❤️❤️❤️😘 xozp

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Hi jess1981,

Congratulations on your pregnancy!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 What a wonderful news 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Thank you very much for your support. It gives me hope. It’s such a hard process... I wish you all the best for your pregnancy 🤞🤞🤞💖💖💖

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Thank you very much. I am glad it could give you hope. Everything crossed for you xoxo 😘

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Sparks12

Hi Mimi

I am also going though the dreaded 2ww had transfer yesterday so just started!

Hang in there sending you lots of positive vibes your way.

Did you do a 3dt or 5dt?

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mimisquiz77 in reply to Sparks12

Hi Sparks12,

Congratulations on your transfer!!!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Best of luck with the waiting game... it was a FET 5dt with egg donor. 💖

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Sthesh in reply to Sparks12

Hi what was the result.....hope you have your baby now

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Leannefb

Hi

I'm also going through my FET 2WW had transfer Thursday and OTD is Monday. It's so hard not to panic with every twinge or cramp or even when there isn't any twinging or cramping!!!

All I've felt is a dull lower abdomen cramp most days especially after doing the horses and occasional twinges on my right ovary side from 2dpt but that seems to have settled. No sore boobs. Here's hoping the rest of our wait goes quickly and smoothly xx

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LuxFleur

I'm feeling pretty much the same as you. I'm 7dp5dt. OTD is in a week. When I got a BFP I also had no symptoms. The "symptoms" in an IVF TWW don't mean anything. Xx

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