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8dp5dt - headache is killing me

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Good Morning lovely ladies, omg what I night I had! Awake with my head literally EXPLODING. My dear husband woke up and gave me paracetamol (I usually don’t like taking other meds during 2ww but couldn’t resist 🙈🙈🙈) and now feeling slightly better although still in bed. Thanks to you all I did not test last night, I am really trying to stay as positive as I can, but I really can’t wait for Friday- I need a result, I can’t wait any longer!

I hope you are all well and positive 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻Sending baby dust and love to you beautiful human beings!!! ❤️

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Glad you took some paracetamol - could you try a cold towel on your forehead too? Try and chill today - really hope this is a positive sign and well done for not testing 😘😘

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Yes I had a cold towel on my forehead too- it’s my saviour in these cases lol I usually get this headache before AF 😢so it’s hard to stay positive but I’m trying 🍀🤞🏻Thanks Daisy ❤️

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Mmmpudding

Morning Issy, hope your headache is subsiding! I am dying to test too but I am not confident at all so ignorance is bliss for me at the moment.

I have decided to wait till Sunday. You? Waiting till Friday? Xx

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Hey pudding! I know I know that’s the reason why I haven’t tested- I’m a chicken 🐓😂yes waiting until Friday so I have the weekend to recover, and go to the spa!!!!! I really need to chill...how are you Hun? X

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Spa! That sounds amazing. I am not feeling great myself, there is hardly any positivity left in me. To distract myself I’m going to.....Ikea...today. I don’t even know why I am going there, but it’s almost an hour away from me, so i will treat it as an outing haha! Friday is the day after tomorrow so really not long now xx

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Ahahaha I’ve been to Ikea on Saturday- not the best day. It was packed and I was angry at everybody for being in my way so basically I’ve zoomed across corridors to get out with my poor husband trying to search for a ceramic knife (after I told him that ikea doesn’t have them ahaha) - just picture the scene 😂I hope you’ll have a better day today! Yes Friday is not far and somehow I now don’t want to test ahaha I know it’ll be a bfn again 😢

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I’m the same as you now, I don’t want to test anymore. Not knowing seems better than bad news. However, to me, a bfn right away is better than a miscarriage later on. Oops, too much negativity going on here...we are both going get our BFP on our OTD :D

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Yes, we’re going to get our BFPs!!!!! 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Well done for resisting! Keep going you are doing so well. Glad the paracetamol helped a little. Really hoping the headache is a positive sign for you. Best of luck lovely 🍀xxx

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Thanks Picalilli 🤞🏻🍀I need all the luck out there 😂how are you?

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Hoping to have our embryo transfer today 🤞🤞🤞 xxx

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Wow exciting times!!! 🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀good luck and keep us posted! Xx

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AuroraXen

I really rate those kool 'n' soothe forehead patches when i get these... they don't have those awful menthol smells either. So hard not taking proper drugs with these headaches! :-( Hang in there and wishing you luck for Friday. Also, congrats on not caving early! x

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Yes I rate them too! Thank goodness I didn’t have to go to work today because my hair is terrible after keeping the patch on all night 😂😂😂😂😂😂thank you Aurora 🍀🤞🏻💋

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Ah you have my sympathies... I typically take paracetamol, ibuprofen AND codeine when I get bad headaches 😂 Which is obviously not possible right now... roll on Friday, when at least I'll know the score (eek...) xx

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Ya poor pet. 🥺You are safe to take paracetamol ! 👍🏻Don’t be in agony over not wanting to take any , it’s only tablets you can take or codeine if you are in real agony 💖

Sure once you get through today , tomorrow is Thursday then Friday . You can do this now! Just 2 sleeps 💪🏻

You’ve got this!

I didn’t have my crazy eRly morning cramps this morning so don’t now what going on now. Defo feel like old Aunt Flo is knocking at the door 🚪 tho 😆 wish she would p off.

Hugs x 💐

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Hey Rhino dear 🦋look I think we should stop thinking about symptoms as meds play a massive part in it- we need to keep calm and get to test day. When’s your test day? Apologies if I’ve asked you already but my brain is not working properly lol x

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My test day is Saturday , so if you make it to Friday , I’ll make it to Saturday 😘 deal ? 💐🤩

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Absolute deal!!! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻We can do this! 🍀🍀🍀🍀🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Pondev

Hope your feeling better. My test day is also Friday this week has been so hard and it’s only Wednesday. Monday I felt hopeful, yesterday I was positive it was gonna be a BFP today I feel it’s gonna be a BFN. Severe cramps and back ache like I always feel a couple days before Aunt Flo.

But really hoping you get a positive. The day after tomorrow time will fly by. X

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Hi Pondev! I’m still miserable with my headache and really hungry 🙈Friday is round the corner we must resist! Was your embryo graded? Mine is a 3BB....yep I think it’s a bpf and 5 seconds later I think it’s a bfn 😂😱🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀we can only cross our fingers! How are you feeling today? X

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Mine is 2BB have 3 grade AA in the freezer. Very negative today but my partner is keeping my spirits up.

Just baking dinner rolls now to distract myself. Hoping I feel better tomorrow so I can actually go out and about. I’m housebound driving me insane. I’m high risk for OHSS so clinic advised me no work during the 2ww

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Mmmm dinner rolls you’re making me hungryyyyy! Omg I’d only eat junk food these days...🙈my hubby is out at a work dinner tonight so I’ll be having just a soup I can’t be bothered to cook and everything that smells puts me off...why did they pick a BB grade when you have AAs do you know? Anyway we’re BBs sisters! 😍🍀🤞🏻🍀🤞🏻🍀

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They said it would be better to freeze the AA as they would more likely survive the thaw. Clinic put me on high protein diet cause of the OHSS or I wud probably be eating junk felt nausea when I’m cooking meat or poultry so mostly baking cakes and bread. Starting dinner letting hubby finish can’t go in the kitchen. 😢😢will be looking out for update on Friday. 😃

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Oh darling I know what you mean I am so sensitive to smells too...it’s the progesterone 🙈I hope you feel better soon xx take it easy and relax 😎

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Thanks I was overanalysing thought the sensitivity to smell was a sign of a BFP. The pessaries r driving me insane 😭

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I think it’s too early for that kind of pregnancy symptoms 🙈the pessaries are really powerful, they totally take over my whole body! I’m so sick of them!

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