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Hi all,

My DH and I started our first ICSI cycle last week. I went for scan again today (day 7) only to be told I have responded too well to the meds too quickly (I have PCOS) and that the cycle has to be abandoned😓 They said I can start next cycle following my next period and they will start with a lower dose (100 gonal instead of 125). Im now worried the same thing will happen again on our next try and wondering if anyone can share any similar experiences with any positive results?

Currently lay on the sofa watching Beauty & The Beast (for the 100th time) feeling very sorry for myself!

Sending everyone lots of baby dust ✨ and lots of luck during your journeys xxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear this. On the plus side they are going to adjust your meds accordingly and will have learned a lot from your failed cycle. Better to have responded (albeit too well) than not respond well enough and have it cancelled for that reason xx

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everhopeful83 in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you so much, and your right that’s what they said, it’s better to have responded well than not at all xxx

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Caroliono4 in reply toTugsgirl

I agree, it's good news that you responded so well, and that are being looked after by your clinic. Less meds can only be a better thing for you and your eggs :) Best of luck with your next round x

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everhopeful83 in reply toCaroliono4

Thank you so much xxx

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genten

Aww sorry to hear this. It must be so frustrating for you.

Hoping all goes better when you start again next month. Xxx

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everhopeful83 in reply togenten

Thank you xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi everhopeful83. So sorry to hear this, and what a nightmare after going through all the preparation injections etc. Still, they will have learned much about you, and already are altering the meds dose. Have a good rest for now when you can and drink plenty of water to quieten those follicles down. Thinking of you. Diane

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everhopeful83 in reply toDianeArnold

Thank you so much Diane, very much appreciated xxx

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Cinderella5

Ahhh Im really sorry, it must be so disappointing to get stopped when you've just started but at least you know that you do respond to the drugs and next time they will have a much better approach to things which is the main thing for your health! Rest up and lok after yourself!xx

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everhopeful83 in reply toCinderella5

Thank you so much 😊xxx

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Olivialinney

I know the feeling I responded really well to a bit to well that when I had my ec they decided on a freeze all the risk of ohss was to high it was a big disappointment. Hopefully they will get you the right dose next time they only cancel if it’s really necessary xx

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everhopeful83 in reply toOlivialinney

Thanks so much for the reply, my follicles we’re ready today when they called me in for another scan, as a last ditch attempt, but the bloods this afternoon were way off again🤣 best of luck to you on your journey 💕xxx

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Olivialinney in reply toeverhopeful83

It’s really is frustrating this cycle I really felt I was having to jump hurdle after hurdle this is my 8th cycle 4 fresh 4 frozen so I understand And thank you best of luck to you also 🤞🏼💗we will get our turn🙏🏻

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everhopeful83 in reply toOlivialinney

Wow you’ve been through so much, I pray you get your happy ending💕xxxx

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AJJ123

Have u thought about IVM?xx

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everhopeful83 in reply toAJJ123

Hi sorry for the late reply we have been moving this weekend & it’s been a tad stressful!! No, I’ve actually never heard of IVM, but I’ll defo look in to it, thank you for the reply xx

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Clark2018

You and I sound like two peas. Im going through ICSI with my OH and I also have PCOS. The clinic have said they are worried that the meds will hyper stimulate my eggs and gave me a dose of 112.50 of Gonal - F. Thank you for telling your story as I don't know if id be as brave.

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everhopeful83 in reply toClark2018

Oh wow yes very similar! Have you started your injections? How are you getting on with it? I’m just waiting to start again now🤣 xx

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Clark2018 in reply toeverhopeful83

Yeah I’m on my 3rd day of injections and a shorter time frame due to the PCOS. Already on the Gonal- F and cetrotide from today x

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everhopeful83 in reply toClark2018

Aw Best of luck! 🤞🏼🤞🏼✌🏼xx

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