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A heart breaking BFN

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First cycle over! All begin in Feb with egg collection then everything had to be frozen until my tubes were clipped, then some delays with clinic and finally transfer 7 months later ending in today's BFN. Xx

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So sorry to read this. Gentle hugs xx

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Thank you so much. Xx

I’m so sorry darling x

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Thank you. Xx

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Awww hunni I'm so very very sorry 😢 its so unfair BFN are bloody rubbish!! I hope your coping as ok as you can 😓 look after ypurself please. I'm so sorry 😟 xxx

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It sure is. I never want anyone to go through anything like this but also glad I'm not alone if that makes sense. Xx

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I know its just horrible isn't it and your def not alone!! This sounds stupid but I'm actually dreading this 2nd cycle now wishing I never even started as it's only the beginning but I just know how heartbreaking that bfn is 😟 I hope you have good support around you right now xxx

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Aww bless you. Sorry you feel like this about your 2nd cycle.

Hopefully you'll get your positive.

I do thank you so much. Xx

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Awww Im really sorry! So crap seeing a BFN after doing all of this! Hugs.xx

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Thank you. Xx

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Tugsgirl

I’m really sorry. I know that bfns are hard xx

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They really are. Thank you. Xx

Oh I’m so sorry. BFN are awful xoxo

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Thank you. Xx

Sending lots of love to you. ❤️

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Thank you. Xx

I'm really sorry hun, take care of yourself xxx

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Thank you so much. Xx

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Thinking of you, sendings you big hugs. 💕

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Thank you. Xx

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I’m really sorry to read this. BFN’s are totally rubbish and deflating. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Thank you so much. Xx

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So sorry it's negative. Thinking of you, take care of yourself. Xx

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Thank you. Xx

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Very sorry...much love xx

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Thank you. Xx

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such heart breaking news! im so sorry. sending you lots of love xxx

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Thanks so much. Xx

oh no, I'm really sad to read this- sending you lots of love, be kind to yourself and I hope you have lots of non-virtual love around you to go with the virtual love xxxxx

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Aww thank you and I do. Xx

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So so sorry hun. Be kind to yourself 😘💝

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Thank you so much. Xx

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I'm so sorry to read this. Big hugs xxx

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Thank you so much. Xx

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Caza2009

I’m so so sorry Hun! Really had my fingers crossed for you! I hope you’re ok. Sending you so much love xxxxxx

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Thank you. I know! Me too.

Xxx

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So sorry to hear this 😢 xx

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Thank you. Xx

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this. Hugs. Take good care xx

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Thank you so much. Xx

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drinathan

Very sorry to hear this. I hope u heal soon as much as you can.

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Thank you so much. Xx

I'm really sorry. Very disappointing for you after such a long wait. I hope you're ok xx

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Thank you so much.xx

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I’m so sorry to read this hunny x x x

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Thank you so much. Xx

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Scarlett13

It’s absolutely unfair and awful and devastating- I’ve had 4 failed transfers now and I’m tired of it not working. I’m so sorry you’ve had such a long wait too. Have you thought of your next steps? X

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genten in reply toScarlett13

It is unfair, unfair to all of us wanting and hoping to be patents no matter what our issues with fertility.

So so sorry to hear of your 4 transfers, it must be so difficult ☹😥.

I have 1 more NHS funded cycle.

I spoke to the nurse this morning and the consultants are going to review my notes of this failed cycle and decide next course of action for 2nd cycle.

I need to wait for this af to arrive and then I can call after next months af and request treatment next month.

Xx

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