A BFN for me...

[Blondie_81]

The clinic just rang - she said there was a small amount of HCG detected - level of 4 and it needs to be 50 or above for definite pregnancy. They want me to go in again next Monday for another blood test... what's the effin point?? Just to be sure she said but if I get my period before then to ring them. FFS. I knew it. But at least we've got 2 more frozen embryos so hopefully one of those will be the one.

[Littledee88]

Sorry to read this Hun as u said u have 2 frozen embryo so will keep everything crossed it's a successful cycle next time for u. This ivf rollercoaster journey can be so cruel at times. Xx

[Fredaflintstone]

So sorry to hear that Blondie. Bfns are so hard. I hope your numbers have gone up by next Monday. Look after yourself. It will get easier. Sending you big hugs xxx

[Blondie_81 in reply to Fredaflintstone]

Can they do that? My clinic don't really explain numbers. The nurse seemed pretty sure it was a negative result.. I don't see the point in going back to re test. Thanks for your kind words. I feel ok I think I knew deep down xx

[Fredaflintstone in reply to Blondie_81]

I think beta numbers double every two days if it’s positive so if it did become positive you’d expect them to go up. I’d go back and test next week if no AF. I think it cannot happen I’m rare cases xx

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Thinking of you x

Take care xx

[Amanda86]

So sorry 🙁 Thinking of you xxxx

[angelaloves]

Sorry to hear this hun, fingers crossed that you get a positive next week x

[Blondie_81]

Thanks. Does that ever happen do you know where a negative result earlier on can turn in to a positive result?? x

[Hidden]

I'm sorry, and have no idea but I do think you should go back next week, if you don't get your AF, as advised just to be sure.

Sending you gentle hugs xx

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry to read this. BFNs are hard xx

[Blondie_81 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Nothing compared to what you've been through recently - hope you're okay have been thinking of you xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Blondie_81]

I’m doing ok as I can be considering...

I meant what I said, my first round was a bfn and it was upsetting. You have every right to be disappointed xx

[Lamorna80]

Really sorry to hear this. I hope you manage to pick yourself up soon. Xx

I'm out of the 2WW too, AF arrived properly today 😔 . Exactly the same as last cycle, I just wish that I could actually make it to test day (Friday). I've got to have yet another fresh round as no frosties but will have to wait a while as it's got too difficult to fit it around work until next March. So frustrating as time really isn't on my side. This whole cycle hasn't felt right so I've been well prepared for the disappointment.

I hope you're being well looked after, this process really is shit x

[Blondie_81 in reply to Lamorna80]

It really is isn't it?? Thank you for the support I really find this forum and you amazing ladies so helpful. I'll be 37 in Feb so similar age to you. I'm so sorry to hear your news too. It is so shit and so hard. I know so many people including my sister (2 ivf one fresh and one frozen worked both times!) where they've had success first time which makes you think why not me?? But I know it'll happen when the time is right. My clinic don't use glue or that technology where they can observe the embryos development daily without disturbing them so wonder if that really doesn't help?? I knew deep down from middle of last week really. My DH was so sure it had worked tho and he's usually the negative one! Bless him. Good luck and again I'm sorry xx

[Lamorna80 in reply to Blondie_81]

My clinic has the technology where they can view them without disturbing them which has got to be better but made no difference to me.

When I mentioned the 'scratch', I was made to feel like I was being OTT & told that they don't usually bother with that unless you've had at least 3 failed attempts?! Well perhaps I don't want to wait until then! I'm changing clinics next time but the next closest is 3half hour drive so it's going to take some sorting with time off (they don't know). I'm not thinking about it yet, just going to enjoy some alcohol and a bit of a life for a good few weeks before researching what to do.

It's just so frustrating that they can't give any answers.

Good luck with your frozen cycle xxx

[Blondie_81 in reply to Lamorna80]

I had a scratch for our first cycle as we were invited to be part of a trial they were doing across the country to see if it made a difference with first time ivf but usually only given for women who've had several failed attempts so didn't get it second go or this.. Shame as first cycle we didn't even get to transfer stage to try it... I am currently enjoying a large glass of red wine!! X

[Dream32]

I'm sorry to hear this. 😞

[Sunshine09]

So sorry hunny, sending loads of love n hugs your way ❤️💋💋

[Scarlett13]

So sorry - how disappointing - but if it gets confirmed that you're not pregnant.....come on Frosties!!!! X

[Lolepops]

So sorry to hear this . I don’t think any words can make you feel any better . Just try and think of positive things . It’s good you have some Frosties to use . Hope you can get cracking again soon if things don’t change this time and you just never know xxxx

[ICSIBaby86]

So sorry lovely 😥xxxx it's awful isn't it ! I hope you feel better soon hang in there ! You'l get your BFP ! Xxxx

[E_05]

So sorry, BFN's are so hard. Take the time you need x

[sunshineyellow]

So sorry to hear this xxx

[Oliverl]

BFN for me as well it's so hard I'm sorry for your news xx

[Blondie_81 in reply to Oliverl]

So sorry to hear this hope you're ok? Xx

[Hayley5385]

So sorry to hear this xxxx

[DC13]

I am so sorry to read your post. It is such a hard journey and I want to wish you all the best for FET in the future.

xx

[Blondie_81 in reply to DC13]

Thank you xx