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Well just came back from the hospital and we got another bfn on out 3rd Round.

We are absolutely devastated.

We have decided to take a break from all ivf. Plan a nice holiday, then think about what to do next.

Good luck to every one else who are in the process.

Xx

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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Beanme

Im so sorry for your loss Jenkins89. I think booking a holiday and taking some time out for yourselves is an excellent idea. This process can be so difficult but its important to remember you are not alone. You have a loving supportive partner who cares for you. Take this time to be carefree and have fun xxx Take care of yourself:)

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Amanda86

So sorry Jenkins. Take care xxx

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MommaBear16

Oh Jenkins I'm so sorry to read this. I think you're doing the right thing taking some time out for yourself, this process is so damn hard. Sending so much love, take care of yourself x x x

I am so sorry, X.

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sanj76

so sorry to read this.... I hope and pray you have the blessing and strength in dealing with the sad news. We are all here to support ok

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Tugsgirl

So so sorry x

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Kloulou83

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. A break may be a good idea to try and re group. Big hugs. Xx

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Pookymama

Oh Jenkins, I am truly sorry for your loss - no one can fully comprehend the gravity of this situation until they have been through it.

I think it's very wise to take some time out to be yourselves and enjoy each other and life's beauties again that do not revolve round fertility.

It's such an exhausting uphill battle that it's so important to step back from it all to regain your strength together before the next, hopefully happier chapter begins.

I send you warmest wishes of healing for now and hope for a sunny future.

Love and hugs xxxx

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me08

So sorry to read this from you, yes you are doing the right thing by taking a break, take care x

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that! You're right to plan something nice & take some time out! Take care!xx

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emmab178

So sorry to hear the result. Hope you have a wonderful holiday x

So sorry to hear this take care of your self xx

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CountryCat

I wish you had received better news...I am so sorry 😞 Sending hugs and wishes for happier days ahead xxx

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-noodles-

really sorry to hear your sad news. a holiday & some time away sounds good - look after each other.

sending lots of love

Sorry to hear your sad news. Take care x

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vic77

Sending you all my love..this is devastating for you both...I think a break and a holiday sounds like a good plan..take care and sending you hugs xxx

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emu2016

Big hugs xx

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Nesfin

I'm so sorry to hear this but take all the time you need to enjoy life, gather strength and look forward with hope regardless where life takes you next. Big hugs xoxo

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Jaky76

Big hugs Coming your way xxx

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ch319

So sorry for your bfn. Big hugs. X

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pradhan

Correct approach. Forget everything. Just holiday. be happy. When you get back and when you feel free, post me. Wish you Best of holidaying. What about India : The himalayas snow and towering mountains. Rajasthan, camel, deserts. Variety. Enjoy. Not costly. Not at all. Take my home as your launch pad. No costs.

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Krikri

So sorry to read this.... take good care of yourself and treat yourself well! Hugs xxx

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lovewinspain

Sorry to know it...tc of yrself.....u tried ur best....

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Georgina78

So sorry Jenkins, I've also had three failures and it doesn't get any easier does it. Sending huge virtual hugs xxx

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ditsy999

So sorry it didnt work this time .. .there is always time later to think about your next step. Take the time you need, be strong, big hugs xx

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