Yes, our most recent clinic wanted to do things their way and would not allow any movement from their process.
It would have impacted them in no way to allow us to choose our own donor clinic but they flat refused and so we moved clinic and they have been incredibly accommodating.
If you are paying and aren’t comfortable then do what’s right for you.
We are NHS if we were paying I wouldn't have continued with the cycle at all.
At our first ever appointment the female consultant suggested adoption, and then subsequent appointments got so many things wrong. I got an invoice for a procedure I never had and flipped so we were given a new consultant.
Now we are on number 3!
Once we are paying I will feel more in control but how unfair that NHS in our case hasn't been to a high standard....
So sorry to hear this, that’s awful! What clinic are you at?! It’s hard enough without having that to deal with! It will all work itself out in the end I promise!! We were referred to the wrong clinic originally and that caused me so much upset and stress as they told us to start from scratch with GP! All was sorted in the end thanks to my Husband kicking up a fuss and within a week we were at a seminar at the correct clinic! Thinking of you and hoping all starts to turn itself around! Xx
I felt the same with mine and it’s NHs but I literally have no other option where I live so bad to stick with it. Every time it was a new consultant. My first experience with the first consultant had me in tears. I always came home so frustrated. Second round they were about to give me the wrong meds. I asked to double check and sure enough, had to go back to get the right ones. I’m pretty sure I had mild OHSS but they never check bloods and so they did a fresh transfer anyway. Every time it’s a different nurse doing the scans. I was really fed up. Felt like there was always something on the verge of going wrong. Luckily we gots BFP on our 1st FET and hopefully I don’t have to see them again for a long time.
Hope your pregnancy is going well! Remember you told me to call for a cancelation?
I just had the appointment and feel a bit better.
He said the chances are good and not loose hope. Good quality embryo etc etc. We had the lead consultant who has 20 years experience as opposed to the last one that qualified in 2017! They are saying I need to self fund progesterone injections as I may need something a bit more hardcore. So happy they are tailoring a bit more to me personally.
Good to hear your positive story coming from a similar clinic!
Having my scratch mid July and then all systems go for August!
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(Update results, TW) Dreading OTD tomorrow 😬
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BFN today 😥
