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BFN today 😥

So today our first ivf cycle ended with a bfn. The clinic say they will book me a follow up appointment but I just feel so in limbo now. Hoping it doesn’t take too long for our appointment and we can ask all our questions. Self funding now as this cycle was our one nhs chance.

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Sorry to read this lovely, it is so hard, and nothing you did. If you email Diane directly she will email you a set of questions which are quite helpful. Be kind to yourself xxx

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Hi Emma,

I'm so sorry this cycle didn't work out for you!

Sending you love, hugs and hope for now and the pathway forward. Xxx

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Sorry to hear that Emma! Hugs xxx

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So sorry. Take care x

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Sorry to hear this xx

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So sorry. Thinking of you and sending a gentle hug. It really does hurt. Be kind to yourself and your OH xx

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So sorry to read this, hope you get your appt soon xx

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I’m so sorry. I hope the follow up comes soon so you get some answers. A BFN is very hard to take, so look after yourselves.

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Sorry to hear that, take care of yourself 😘😘 l really hope its second time lucky for u 😘 xxx

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I’m so sorry that you haven’t had good news today. It must be heart breaking 😞.

Hopefully the appointment comes out quickly so that you get some answers x

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Thank you all so much for your replies. Today has been harder than I ever imagined but now I’m going to focus on moving on - I hope we get a follow up appointment soon.

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I’m so sorry. It’s an absolutely devastating feeling especially with the hormones that are totally out of whack. Take your time to grieve your loss and be kind to yourself. You deserve it. xxx

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Sorry to hear this...it’s so hard when you get bfn. It took me a while to come to terms with mine. I’m now waiting for FET .... nervous as hell x

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Wishing you all the luck for your FET Prickler, sadly we had no eggs to freeze so will have to go again from the start. I’m feeling so very low about it all right now, and I’m just hoping we get our follow up appointment sooner rather than later as I need something to focus on xxx

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Oh I’m sorry to hear this. It’s the not knowing I find the hardest.its horrible.

Have you tried acupuncture.i find it helps me x

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Sorry 😞 a bfn is very hard xx

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It is but I’m only just beginning, I only hope I have half the strength that some of you ladies have on here to get me through xx

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You will 💪🏻 xx

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So sorry to hear this. Our first cycle ended in a BFN and it truly is so hard to bear. I’m currently 7dp5d fet. This is our only funded round too so I know the feeling of extra pressure that brings. Really hope u get your appointment through soon. Xx take care of yourself xx

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