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Hello lovelies,

I’m really going a bit nuts (I know this happened last cycle on prontogest!) but my god it seems to be getting harder with each round 😟 I’m excited about transfer next Wednesday, and yesterday they told me my womb lining is lovely and thick!! I’m going to be on blood thinners and antibiotics and I’m starting cyclogest earlier than last time, coupled with prontogest so they really are throwing everything at it, but I really don’t know how I’ll cope if round 6 doesn’t work. I’m swinging from positivity to sheer terror at what’s in store. And the thought of our embryo not thawing properly is terrifying me, I’m not sure how much more I can cope with.

Sorry just feeling so desperate

Xxx

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Please don’t be scared, you’re so blessed to have this chance and so far at 12 weeks 5 days pregnant I had success on cycle 6 transfer 1 🙏🏼 You’ve got every chance of success, please be positive and believe it!! All fingers crossed for you xxx

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Billywhizz10

Stay positive, its easier said than done,but focus on everything working. We tried to do that on our 6th cycle,but we did make a plan if it didn't work. Hope for the best, plan for the worst seemed to work with us, and counselling throughout as a a couple, and my wife on her own for a few sessions. It really helped.

Best of luck to you x

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Aleelilook in reply to Billywhizz10

Thank you! So number 6 is your lucky number too? This is promising! I’m a counselling veteran! I’ve been going weekly for nearly two years - not just fertility but he is a specialist in that side of things. Thank you, trying to focus on all the positives, need to keep my head in the game! X

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Aleelilook

Thank you and congratulations, but I don’t feel very blessed to be going into round 6, I feel like the universe is a bit of a shit right now! But you bring me hope that 6 was your lucky number! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy xxx

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Emmad781

This is such a hard journey you are so brave and strong to be doing this for a sixth time I really hope it works out for you this time

Good luck x

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Aleelilook in reply to Emmad781

Thank you xxx

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Autumnmoon

Absolutely hoping this time is the one that works for you am sorry for all the stress you are going through but at the end of the day it is out of your hands and so try to relax and distract yourself as much as you possibly can sending best wishes to you for success x

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Aleelilook in reply to Autumnmoon

Thank you so much xx

Good luck honey.. seems like ur clinic have taken the right steps to make this round a success.. try to remain positive Take ur mind off it by maybe starting a new tv show or book.. im doing this atm as my transfer is around 22nd June and last time round i just obsessed about everything and it really made me anxious..

Lots of love and hugs your way x

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Aleelilook in reply to

I feel Netflix will be my saviour! Good luck to you as well lovely! Xx

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Missy_22

Positive thoughts and vibes your way! I so hope it works for you. You deserve it so much. Stay strong my lovely! You can do this and it will work xxx ps I will be right behind you hopefully xxx

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Aleelilook in reply to Missy_22

Thank you so much, and good luck to you!! Xxx

I can relate to you totally. Hoping to start round 6 soon and whilst I am really excited to get things going, I am so not looking forward to worrying about everything.

Good luck with everything xxx

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Aleelilook in reply to

Lucky number 6 that’s what I’m going for! Good luck to you too when you start, only two more sleeps and hopefully I’ll have a little embie onboard! Xxxx

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Ohhh exciting. Good luck xx

Fingers and toes crossed for you hunnie 😘 xxx

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Thank you lovely! Xxx

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