I really hope no one objects to me writing on here as it’s not IVF related but I could do with the advice..
You all know everything we’ve been through this last month well to top it off my FIL has just rang me to say his cancer has spread. He hasn’t yet told my Hubby who is due home in half hr but wants me to take him round to theirs unsuspecting so he can be told the news. We all knew he was going to London today to get his MRI and CT results.
My heart is breaking for them as the prognosis doesn’t look good and I know this is going to sound really selfish but I’m just not able to deal with all of this at the mo. I also feel really uncomfortable lying to my husband, I don’t know whether to tell him his dads rang and we need to go round as the results weren’t good, tell him what his dads told me or just do as his dads asked.
What would you do?? Any advice is much appreciated. Typically my Mum isn’t picking up her phone 😩