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Sunshine after the rain. Brilliant appointment with our fertility doctor 😊

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Hi everyone.

Long post warning!

So we discussed everything that has happened since we last met- I asked him “ how long have you got!!” He said “ carry on”! Said the first laparoscopy diagnosis and treatment of endo, I conceived the first cycle afterwards, we lost our precious baby at 4 and half weeks💔, the endo symptoms returning, the scan he ordered the fact he indicated an issue on my scan and refered me to a gynaecologist, who I saw January and decided a laparoscopy, hysteroscopy and biopsy. So I had this surgery last Friday- endo back and removed.

I quizzed him over my surgery because i saw the consultant on my own after anaesthetic! Anyway I blame the anaesthetic and morphine because there is no spots of endo in my uterus and it was just on my bowels! Opps!!!! 🤣 I told my hubby he should’ve been there 🤣🤣🤣

He’s referring me to a endo specialist- someone he knows very well and sees regularly ! 😀 Good result 🙌🏻

I don’t need a colorectal specialist as this endo specialist will do a lap and will have a bowel specialist on hand 😊

He says although my endo isnt severe it does tend to recur quickly- i seem the best more prone to period blood flowing back and implanting well- I wish it was a pregnancy!

But he is encouraged by our positive test in July and thinks we should try again. I asked about the miscarriage risk with my endo and he says no higher than other woman.

The pkan is- we ttc a few months, maybe try clomid again, see endo specialist if nothings happening, have a lap with endo specialist, try again, if nothing still see our fertility doctor and it’s IVF.

He cuddled me and kissed my cheek and said “ all the best my darling “ and shook olis hand and said “ good luck superman!” ( Oli was wearing superman tshirt)

For the first time since I lost my baby I feel happy and at peace.

Anyone’s whose made it this far well done and thank you. Xoxo

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VW17

So happy for you! 😀

in reply to VW17

Thank youn😊 xoxo

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Minchoo

Sometimes people we meet really brighten up a cloudy day! It all seems fixable and I do wish the best for you and your superman!

in reply to Minchoo

Thank you and to you too xoxo

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Brilliant news that the morphine helped you make a mistake so glad your wombs clear. Good luck lovely

💗🤗😘

Aww thank you - relieved isn’t the word! Back to the crazy world of trying again 🤪

Hope the pregnancy is going well xoxo 💗 xoxo

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Good luck lovely 💗🤗😘

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Amanda86

Great news Jess, all sounding very promising! Best of luck 😀 xxx

in reply to Amanda86

Thank you. We are so lucky to have such a good supportive consultant 😊

And I hope all is going well with your pregnancy xoxo

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Amanda86 in reply to

All well thank you 🙂 xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi jess1981. So pleased that you finally more happy. Always thinking of you. Diane

in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you Diane, it feels better to know there is a plan and many opportunities to conceive it puts less pressure on us. xoxo

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply to

Indeed it does. xx

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