Red blood 9dp5dt

[Elizabeth86]

Well as the title says I think I’ve just found out I’m out. Red blood today, not full flow or cramps yet but red is never good is it so assuming this is the start of the end. This is such a heartbreaking process. To now have to keep doing the pessaries and even after full flow wait until Friday and test just seems so cruel. Had really hoped to make it to test date without spotting, turns out no usual brown but straight for red! Don’t even know why I’m posting just feeling a bit heartbroken xxx

[gemmy999]

I’m so sorry to hear this. How heartbreaking 💔 I’ve just started my 2WW and I’m so nervous. Its such a cruel process. Sending a big hug x

[Elizabeth86 in reply to gemmy999]

Thank you gemmy. It’s such an emotionally hard process. Must try pick myself up but just want to know either way now! Wishing you so much luck with your tww xx

[gemmy999 in reply to Elizabeth86]

I can imagine it’s so hard to move on until you’ve had confirmation. And even then it would take lots of time. I wouldn’t rush your emotions. Thank you xx

[JULIETJAM]

Hey Elizabeth, I can’t begin to imagine how you are feeling. I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. Friday is a long wait especially with the way you are feeling now. Maybe you should do a test tomorrow and put your mind at rest. 10dp5dt is not early to test. I had my blood on 9dp5dt and I was called with good news. I then went and bought a clear blue test kit to just see for myself and when I tested at 10dp5dt it confirmed pregnancy. That’s how I know 10dp5dt is not to soon to test. Not sure if that would help you put your mind at rest instead of waiting till Friday. Thinking of you. Look after yourself xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to JULIETJAM]

Thank You. Yes I think i’ll talk to my husband tonight about doing a test tomorrow morning as it would help us adjust rather than have this whole week or wondering and waiting for AF to show up. It’s encouraging that you got a reliable result at 10dp5dt. Thank you for your kind words xx

[JULIETJAM]

Look after yourselves. I will pray for you and hopefully it’s not AF. There is still hope. Hold onto it however difgicult it is.xxx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry to hear this 🙁 It's such a difficult journey and can Ben so cruel. Please don't give up you have gotten through soo many hurdles and got this far. Be proud of what you have achieved. Big hugs to you and your other half I hope your ok xxx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Claire xx

[Jenjen84]

I’m so sorry to hear this.. I had the same experience and it’s heart breaking.. Thinking of you and hoping that it’s just a blip and you get your BFP.. Sending a big hug xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Jenjen84]

I’ve just read your posts Jen it seems we’ve had the same experience i’m so sorry for your loss but thanks so much for reaching out. I guess in time we dust ourselves off and try again but right now I can’t even think of that. A large vino would be nice for now 😊 Xxx

[Jenjen84 in reply to Elizabeth86]

It’s very hard to dust yourself off when Your fears are confirmed.. In time we both will I guess as the want for this is so real! Tell me about it re the vino, been craving it for weeks now! 😳

Take care and will be thinking of you this week.. xx

[Anna00]

I’m so sorry Elizabeth I really feel you and I know you’re upset and shock😔 but the thing is it’s not full flow so there is still hope, I heard people had red blood and got their BFP so try and keep your hope till your test day. 🤞🏻🤞🏻xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Anna00]

Thank you Anna. I’d love to remain hopeful and my husband refuses to think of this as the end yet but it’s so hard when it’s red. 2 years of red meaning the end has conditioned me I think! I will try though, thanks so much xx

[Anna00 in reply to Elizabeth86]

My husband was exactly like yours even when I tested and it was bfn he was still hopeful for my blood test don’t know how🤦🏻‍♀️😂 don’t think about the red blood,rest a bit more watch movie or something you like xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Anna00]

I do love their optimism! 😂 thank you lovely. Back on with the movies and box sets! Xxx

[Anna00 in reply to Elizabeth86]

xxx

[Dunla]

My heart goes out to you Elizabeth, I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs and lots of love to help get you through these difficult days xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Dunla]

Thanks so much Dunla xx

[Looby25]

Thoughts are with you and your OH! Hoping you get a surprise positive! Look after each other x x x

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Looby25]

Thanks looby trying to stay calm. Just been reading your post - hope you are ok? I can imagine it’s hard to ever relax after going through this whole process. Thinking of you and hope you have a happy 12 week scan xxx

[Lou7744]

I’m so sorry to read this, it’s a really rubbish time. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Lou7744]

Thanks so much loo - it’s so rubbish. You girls are all such an amazing support. Thank you xxx

[Hidden]

Thinking of you. This journey can be extremely cruel still holding hope you get a bfp 💖 xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww I'm so sorry I had this on twice of my cycles, just felt robbed! Sending hugs xx

[Caroliono4]

I'm really sorry to hear your news and hope it isn't what you fear. X x

[Scarlett13]

I'm very sorry. On my first cycle I also got AF on 9dp5dt. I hated that I hadn't even got to do a test, it felt so cruel and I was so upset. I really feel for you. I was told that the pessaries should stop your period from starting so soon after your embryo transfer so I was advised to take prontogest injections in my bum this second round instead of the pessaries to get the progesterone into my blood much quicker. Maybe this is something that will be suggested for you for next time if you aren't pregnant on this round - they're not pleasant injections though! But I'm hoping the same thing doesn't happen to me on this round. I think it's best if you do a test tomorrow instead of having to cruelly wait. So sorry it's not worked - if that's the case xxx

[Elizabeth86 in reply to Scarlett13]

I’m so sorry to hear you also started bleeding on 9dp5dt. It’s just a rollercoaster of emotions isn’t it? So far the bleeding hasn’t got heavier but is still there. Just another waiting game! I’m never sure how they work out your test date? Mine is 18 days after egg collection is that normal? Xx

[Scarlett13 in reply to Elizabeth86]

Mine is also 18 days after egg collection but most clinics seem to give a shorter wait x

[JULIETJAM in reply to Elizabeth86]

Hey Elizabeth, I thought I should reply to this. Different clinics have different test dates. Not sure how they work it out. Mine was 14 days after EC, EC being day zero. In a natural pregnancy, one can know they are pregnant 14 days after fertilisation day 1 being the day of fertilisation and day 14 being the test date. That’s what my clinic said and that’s why my test was on 14dpEC.x

[Elizabeth86 in reply to JULIETJAM]

Thanks so much for replying. I had been thinking 14 days would make more sense in terms of a natural cycle. I am a bit worried about testing as if it was positive I’m not sure what this bleeding means.. it’s very light (spotting) at the moment but it was definitely red yesterday. Feels too late for implantation though at 9&10dp5dt... xx

[Hidden]

I pray u feel better soon.. cant inagine how heartbroken u are feeling but try to remain positive..there is still some hope xx