Went for a gathering last night at a friends house. I didn’t drink as I was the driver. Most people in the room aware of our TTC situation...
“Have you got something to tell us” - No, not pregnant.
“You won’t know if you have problems unless you try” - We’ve been trying for a while.
“Why aren’t you drinking” - I wish it was for that reason, but no I’m not pregnant.
They all pretty much know what we are going through. How do I politely say stop trying to guess! If I get pregnant I will tell you when I feel comfortable to!!
The worst one was a wedding where a drunk guy kept congratulating me on my pregnancy- it was the girl stood next to me who was actually pregnant 🤦🏻♀️
I understand they don’t get it and sometimes its by accident (or the drink talking). But it just makes me want to avoid going to these gathering altogether.