Emotional after Ectopic.

[KirstyC90]

Got an e-mail this morning from 'What to expect'. I clicked on unsubscribe and it took me to my profile and showed me what my baby's due date would have been and what week I would have been on. The reality of it is starting to kick in a bit now. All the happiness we felt after trying for four years- all went in a matter of 48 hours. There were no other options than to remove the baby and the tube but it still makes me so sad that it was the only option. My other tube isn't very good either so we now rely on IVF when we are ready. Just feeling rubbish that all that hope and happiness had to end so quickly and with surgery

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Thinking of you x

[Lou7744]

Am sending you a big hug. It’s a rubbish time and seeing emails like that doesn’t help. I’d also subscribed to a similar update each week and it hit me hard after my miscarriage 🙁 xx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Lou7744]

Thanks, I know it's awful they tell you how big your baby would be and what would be happening and you just don't need it. I know I subscribed, I'll just have to go on them and take myself off their mailing lists. Urgh just so rubbish xx

[bibi_16]

Im really sorry honey for this hard time your going through. Its a sad time sending best wishes for you..xx

[Mrsgled1982]

Can get an idea what you are going through having just had a miscarriage. Flicking through pictures of my phone today and the picture i took of my hpt came flashing up. I cant bring myself to delete it as its my little reminder i was going to be a mummy.

Everyday it gets a little bit easier xx

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I’m so sorry for your loss- it is heart breaking and you are allowed to have days when it feels too much.

I had a miscarriage that happened a day after our much wanted positive test after ) years of ttc and that was 6 months ago and even now when I think about what could’ve been I cry. I am like you dreading what would’ve been my due date 😭💔

It isn’t much comfort right now but it is positive that your body can conceive- with infertility this is half the battle. Its a crap outcome I know -been there it but it will get better ( never get over it but will feel less raw)

Take as much time as you need to- it’s been quite a shock. There are no hard or fast rules- do what feels right for you. You don’t have to make a decision right now.

Feel free to pm me if you need someone to talk to xoxo