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BFN for me

My FET has resulted in a BFN. I was fully expecting this as I didn't feel within myself it had worked and I had taken two urine tests which came up negative. Hubby had more hope so he is taking this harder. Me and hubby are disappointed however we do have a plan of action which we discussed with the consultant as I have unexplained infertility. The plan is:

1. Hsg Test to check my fallopian tubes are not blocked

2. Clomid to boost ovulation

3. Trying naturally until the summer then second round of ivf

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🙁 so sorry to hear this . Hugs

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Thanks hun x

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Very sorry to hear this, I had been hoping you’d have achieved your BFP. Good luck with your plan of action, your positivity is amazing given how disappointed you must be feeling today. Take care x

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Yes I was a wreck yesterday my DH was getting worried (I had already accepted from two different urine tests that I was not preggers). But im feeling more positive now that we have a plan of action.

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You poor thing. The disappointment is heartbreaking. Hoping you will get through it together and come back fighting x

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Aww Im so sorry Sanchia and your poor hubby! You do however sound very positive that you have formulated a plan going forward. Big hugs xx

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Sending you a big hug. Xx

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I’m sorry to hear this. A plan always helps, and I think an hsg is a very good idea.

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I’m sorry to hear this,thinking of you x

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Sorry to hear this lovely but your plan sounds like a good one!! Keep your mind as positive as can be and visualise your end result xx

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Sorry to hear 😥 good luck to you fingers crossed for you going forward xx

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So sorry to read this but glad to read you have a plan going forward, I think that definitely helps x

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Sorry to hear that Sanchia. Had been following you from a distance and was looking out for your news. It's good that you've got a plan at least.

Hope that this year works out for you!

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So sorry to hear it wasn't good news for you ans your DH 😓 The plan you have in place is very proactive, hopefully you have success with it xx

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So sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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So sorry to hear this!! xx

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So sorry to hear this! Your plan sounds good and is the same as mine. We're currently on point 2🤞Currently feeling hopeful which I didn't think I would after failed cycle. Give yourself time to grieve xxx

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Sorry to hear this, glad you have your plan of action and already are focusing on the future! Good on you x

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So sorry to hear this 🙁 xxx

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Sorry to hear this. And apologies for my perhaps blunt response to your other message which I read first. This message also addresses my comment on ‘why clomid’ so feel free to ignore me!

Be proud that you are managing to stay strong. It’s tough, even if your heart tells you it hasn’t worked. Sending a hug to you and your husband.

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Sorry for your BPN but don’t give up! Never give up... 🤞🍀🤞🍀🤞🍀 like the fact that you now have a plan! 👍

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Yes due to my age there must be a plan. Now on plan C...

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Am 39... been on a this road for 15 years... you always need to be strong and fight and when you get knocked down, you need to wipe of the tears, get up and continue fighting.... 🙂

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Aw sorry to read this Sanchia. Seeing those negatives are hard to swallow, but having a plan is exactly how I have dealt with them too. Wishing you lots of luck for the future xx

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So sorry to hear this xx

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Sorry to hear Sanchia, it seemed to be going so well. Great that you have a plan of action going forward. Keep strong 💪

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I'm so sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for. You seem so resilient and I admire your strength - wishing you lots of positivity for that plan to work out xxx

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So sorry my dear . Hugs

Really appreciate ur positivity of going forward . Xx

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So sorry to hear this! 😢 I had such hopes for you this time. You are coping amazingly and are an inspiration! Good luck with the clomid and natural trying. Sending you big hugs xxxxxx

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