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BFN :-( :-( :-(

Morning ladies, I just wanted to let you know that I did my test this morning, 1 day early, so 11 days post 5 day transfer and got a big fat BFN, not even a very pale line, I'm so devastated I cant actually believe it, I really thought this time it would work :-( We did hypnotherapy , acupuncture, endometrial scratch, I ate really well, no alcohol, I don't smoke, had pomegranate juice, and brazil nuts..... we did everything, I even had 2 weeks complete rest, and still nothing

My hubby has said we just cant afford another attempt although we do have some frozen sperm at the clinic in Cyprus so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I cant get him to change his mind, although I have no idea where we are going to be able to get the money from.......

I have been thinking though if I can convince him, maybe travelling to Serum in Greece and having a hysteroscopy with implantation cuts, I know its more expense (and sounds silly when we cant even afford a normal cycle) but I just cant give up yet, and feel this may help. Has anybody had any success following this procedure ? I just need a little bit of hope as at the moment I'm not sure how I can face Christmas at the moment as we are both just completely devastated

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Oh, I am sooo sorry.....if i could actually just reach over and give you a massive hug just now i would. Practically, I can't give any advice on those procedures as have not gone through them or know much about them - However, I will be sending lots of virtual hugs, cuppy's and tissues......x

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I’m so sorry to hear this. I haven’t had the procedure you are now considering but can empathise with how disappointed you are considering the lengths you went to this time round to achieve success. I was the same, acupuncture, endometrial scratch, healthy eating / drinking to the extreme, guided meditation! You name it, I tried it and still no luck 4 rounds of ICSI later. It’s soul destroying.

Maybe try to have some time out with your husband over Christmas to grieve this loss and be good to yourselves. Perhaps you’ll have some clarity about your next step come the new year.

Wishing you all the very best in your journey xx

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So sorry to hear about your failed cycle. It is heartbreaking when you've done everything and still cant get those magic two lines.

Im having treatment in Athens but not at the clinic you mentioned and Im having hysteroscopy in Jan, my consultant used to work there. I have heard good things about this and read a lot on fertility friends and one girl on here did this and had positive test after although she was using donor eggs as I am, but she may be able to help you out with some info re the clinic and procedure......Blondyboo.

Sending hugs xx

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So sorry for your news, a BFN is so hard to process. I hope in time you rebuild your strength. I’m having a hysteroscopy next year and hoping that might give us some answers, my consultant seemed quite positive about me having it then trying the month after x

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So so sorry to hear this honey. Sending loads of hugs your way. Look after yourself sweetie. Xx

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Am so sorry to hear this. Sending you a big hug xx

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Don't want to give you false positive but I was negative the night before but positive the day after

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I know how you feel it’s just awful. We can’t gac Xmas so going away on holiday. No way I can stay following our miscarriage. We can’t afford but going. Not sure how werenoay for our next round but we will keep going. Take care and look after yourself xx

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So sorry 🙁 xxx

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