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We just got back from our 12 week scan And I've had another missed miscarriage. They said around 9 weeks. The same time as my last one.

I've got to go back tomorrow to the hospital to discuss what happens next.

I feel numb & broken inside. What a start to 2018... 😢😢😢

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Poppy16

My heart goes out to you. I am devastated for you. What very sad and shocking news. I know personally all the emotions you will be feeling right now. Please know we are all there for you on this forum. If you need to chat or ask anything please PM me. Thinking of you so much at such a heart breaking time. There are simply no words... Hope you find comfort in those around you who care. You need a lot of support right now. Big hugs.xo

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry to hear this and I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through. My thoughts go out this time xxx

So sorry to hear this, thinking of you 💔

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baby2016

I'm so sorry to read this. Having been there myself I know the utter despair and numbness you are feeling right now. This journey is so cruel for many women, but no matter how hard and shit it gets and you feel, always try and have a little bit of hope, it's what keeps us all going. Sending you a huge hug xxx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to hear this, thinking of you both!!xx

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Lou7744

Am so sorry to hear this. Sending you big hugs xx

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Jules84

Awe this is awful, I feel sick right now for you know how you feel. 😢😢

This happened to us also and our consultant said that after we are 5 weeks next time they will scan me every week. Might be worth asking this for yourself when you feel up to it. It won’t change anything but I don’t think I could bear to go again to a 12 week scan only to find out it was to be and it happened weeks before.

Thinking of you 😘😘😘 xx

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Lolepops

I am so sorry . Thinking of you 😢x x x

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Kattalex

Unbelievable pain that no words can erase ... hope you find peace and strength within you to carry on fighting! 💜

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Jhenderson

So sorry for your lost. Thinking of you. I found great support from other women on here I hope you can find some strength and comfort here too xxx

Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear this. :(

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Kyell2

This is just awful news. I’m so sorry 😞

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Millie198528

😢😢 oh no I'm so sad to be seeing this sending you love I have been thinking about you all day hoping for good news xx

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_MrsC

I’m so sorry. I’ll be thinking of you over the next few weeks. xxx

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Daxi16

So sorry Becky life is so cruel sometimes. Look after yourself xxx

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Missy_22

I am so sorry to hear this news. Totally devastating and I know exactly how you feel. Take time to grieve and look after yourself xxxx

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TTCs

I am so sorry to learn of your news, how completely devastating. Life is so bloody unfair 😘 xx

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E_05

I’m so sorry, there are no words. Take time to grieve for your baby and do what’s right for you and your OH tomorrow xx

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abcgirl

So sorry to hear this news. Big hugs to you. And I know... WTF!?!? Such a cruel experience to go through.

Silent hugs....

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Squeak2

Awful news, massive hugs 💕 xx

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sanchia46

So sorry to hear this. When was your last scan before 12 weeks?

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lianm8

So sorry to hear this 💗 thinking of you and look after yourself xxx

So sorry x

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Jaky76

So sad to read this... Big big hugs xxx ❤️

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sandy112

I am So sorry hun thinking of you x

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vic77

so so sorry to hear this..thinking of you and sending masses of love xxx

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Petree86

😔 so sorry hun x

Hi, I feel your pain as I am grieving also, sending you lots of hugs and the strength to carry on. Also time is a great healer and look to your family/friends for support xxx

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Sunset81

Oh no I’m so sorry Hun sending big hugs your way I know nothing will make it feel any better but sending hugs to u xx

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Nicolarose

Oh hun. I’m so so sorry. I had a miscarriage at week 7, but the baby died maybe a week before. It was my first, but I can’t imagine how horrible it is Togo through another. I’m so sorry. I’m not going to sit here and say feel better soon, mourn for him/her, you have every right to. You move on when you’re ready. It’s hard, it’s crappy. I pray that you will have a healthy pregnancy soon, but for now let yourself mourn. Take care of yourself xx

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Sienna2

This happened to me just before christmas I know exactly what you are going through emotionally and physically, big hugs and stay strong each day has got easier, I had a scan at 6,7 and 8 after a previous miscarriage all fine and heartbeat strong, 10 weeks heartbeat had stopped at 9 :-( xxx

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Becky179

Thankyou all for your kind words. This forum really is amazing. Xxx

I'm so sorry to hear this, it's just a heart-breaking experience. Make sure you grieve and take the time you need over the coming weeks xxxx

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Bek84

My heart breaks for you 💔 I have had two missed miscarriages, one at 9 weeks and another at 12 weeks. I also lost one at 22 weeks. I can clearly feel your hurt and devastation. We are all here to help you through this and I still hold a flame that we will all receive our rainbow baby at the end. It is a tough journey, but together we will see the other side.

Hugs your way xx

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Anya80

So sorry 😰 I just had same thing happened, 12wks and told that baby stopped growing after initial 7wks scan were we have been shown heartbeat and signed off as all good...the pain cannot be eased at the moment, you please rest and allow the time to help you with the grief x

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply toAnya80

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Sprinkles86

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are being well looked after. Sending lots of love to you both xxxxxx

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-noodles-

am so very sorry for your loss. i can’t imagine your pain, but wish you both strength in the days ahead. take care of each other.

sending love & light 💕✨💕✨

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HPotss

Hi Becky,

Ive just had my 12 week scan and I’ve had the same news....

It’s my first on a frozen ivf cycle and it’s so devastating!

Keep strong! X

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply toHPotss

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Becky179 profile image
Becky179

Hi Ladies. I had the appointment today & opted for surgery with general anaesthetic, thought it best to get things moving. Luckily they can fit me in tomorrow.

Thank you again for all your kind words and thoughts. My thoughts are with everyone else who is going through this also at this time xxx

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply toBecky179

I will be thinking of you tomorrow.

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081010cohen

So so sorry thinking of u xxx

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Ang24816

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I hope you find some strength to get through this hard time. Sending you lots of love xx

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Beebeestar

I’m só sorry. What devastating news. Big hug to wrap you during this grieving process.

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