9dpt 5det BFN

[Frussy]

I am 9 days past transfer from a 5-day fresh good quality embryo and I tested in this morning with a strong negative 😢

Have no symptoms apart that pain like my AF WILL START SOON

feel so empty and devastated 😭

Can not even hold the hope that will change in a positive on my ODT ( in 4 days ) and just I know deep in my heart that is over again for me 😭

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[Shinyhalo1]

So sorry about that but do test on your true test date just to be certain. I got a BFN on my last round so I know how that strong negative line feels. I also had friends/family saying well you might still be you know or the best one perhaps you haven’t got the right amount of hormone running through your veins yet! 🙄 I know they mean well but it doesn’t make that sting feel any better.

Keep strong though girl - sending you love x

[Frussy]

Thank you so much for your reply

Was a 5-day embryo and look everywhere and by day 9 should be even a faint positive 😥😓😥

I will still test in my ODT but try to accept as well that failed again

Losing all the hopes and have such a bad depression right now

Still, have 2 embryos in the storage and right now I don't want anymore to try again, I just go down and down with every trying😭😢😢

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry, it is hard to keep going after a BFN. However I still think that you have a chance so keep going. I dont want to get your hopes up too much but I personally know of a few ladies that didnt get positives until day 11/12/13 and they have little girls. I also didnt get a positive until day 12 with my first BFP. Whilst it did end on miscarriage its looking likely that was due to a progesterone problem. Hugs.xx

[Hidden]

If you are sure you are out sending you hugs, so many of us know that devastation feeling so well. Be kind to yourself and take time to come to terms with it if and I am sure you will be back trying again soon

[Frussy]

Thank you all

Is so hard and is not getting easier atoll, after my second failure though I will get used with a negative test but is just harder and harder

[Noah1981]

It’s heart wrenching darling and we all feel your pain stay strong or intact scream and let itbout I done that yesterday and glfelt better for a while you will have your days but we are all a team so we are here for you big hugs darling xx

[Fingerscrossed38]

My Dr said wait to test 12PT he said quite often women give up a few days earlier and stop their progesterone thinking is a bfn and they get to official test day and voila bfp! Hang in there a few more days xx

[crisps88]

So sorry to hear your sadness. It’s the worst thing in the world to feel like all hope is lost. I really feel for you xxxx

[Rella22]

Hi Frussy,

I know how you’re feeling and it’s a terrible feeling. You’re not out yet as you’ve got a few days left. Hang in there we’re rooting for you!

[Frussy in reply to Rella22]

Thank you all so much

Xxxx❤️❤️❤️