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8 week scan and no heart beat

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I’m numb. I’ve opted to wait and miscarry naturally. The dr said the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks 2 days.

How long does it take for it to start. I have to go back in two weeks for a follow up.

It’s been the best 8 weeks it’s just so sad it has ended in such disappointment. Xx

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jane166

Hi hun so sorry for ur loss it's so hard.i lost twins at 6 week and 12week. Then a little boy at 20 week. So I feel your pain I'm sure it won't take to long for nature to start working but just ask at ur nxt appt if nothing has happened.

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E_05

I am so sorry for your loss, i don’t think there’s a time frame for how long it can take to start. I waited 2.5 weeks tried medical management twice and then had surgery. Please message me if you need to talk or want to ask anything. Allow yourself to grieve though xx

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Penders

Oh Hun I'm really sorry to read this. It's just so heartbreaking. I've just been through a missed miscarriage unfortunately nothing had started for me after 3 weeks so we opted for medical management. I hope that it happens quickly for you and isn't too distressing. Big hugs xxxx

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Tugsgirl

I’m so sorry. It’s happened to me twice this year. I know how you feel so I’m truly sorry xx

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Poppy16

Hi. I am terribly sorry to hear this. I have had 3 losses and I know how tragic and sad it is to lose a precious baby. I trust everything goes smoothly as well as it can for you. Equip yourself with strong painkillers, a hot water bottle and seek support from close family to help you through such a painful time. You need a lot of tlc. Please PM me if you have any questions and I will be only too glad to help. Thinking of you so much and sending you a hug.xo

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AllWeNeedIsluv

So so sorry hun it's the worst thing ever. Take time to grieve hun. Here for you if you ever need to talk. Big hugs lots of love 💗 xx

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MrsTM13

I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't know about timings as I was advised to have surgery when this happened to us. Nothing anyone can say can help right now but know you're not alone. X

So to hear this , sending you huge hugs x

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Positive2022

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Sending you BIG hugs xxx

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Hollibob

:-(

Sorry, no one should have to go through this.

I opted for natural both times. One of the things that worried me was when it started, where would I be, how quickly would it progress...

I went to see my acupuncture lady to see if there was anything to assist and she used some points which I believe speeded the process up.

So sorry to hear this, thinking of you xxx

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Loopielu

Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Sending love and a gentle hug xx

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Lou7744

Am so sorry to hear this. It’s a truly awful time. Sending you a big hug xx

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Tara2016

So sorry to hear this, sending you hugs xxx

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Tara2016

So sorry to hear this. Sending you a big hug. This happened to me last year and it's sooooo cruel so stay strong xxx

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Bule84

Am so sorry to hear about your loss it is a terrible thing to happen....saying this from experience.Hope u get well soon hun allow urself to grieve.😙

Oh no. I’m sad for you.

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Lynnr54

Sorry to hear this. Look after yourself over the next few weeks x

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jenny34

I'm so so sorry for your loss. I dont have any advice just to take care of yourself and allow yourself the time to grieve xx

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Missy_22

I feel your pain we lost on at 7 weeks then a twin at 10 weeks and the other twin at 23 weeks. It hurts like hell but you will find the strength to keep going forward. Take time to look after yourself afterwards. Message me if you ever need to talk take care xxxx

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry to hear this. So painful. Xxxx

Omg I’m so sorry 😔 devastating! Thinking of you 🌹 xxx

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Amanda86

So sorry to hear this 🙁 Thinking of you xxx

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Kittygoo

I'm so sorry to hear this. Life can be so cruel. Mind yourself xxx

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Sjmackel

Just wanted to say that I'm so sorry you are going through this x

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Momsofnations

Am so sorry for your loss. Take heart dear.

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ditsy999

Hi So sorry for your loss. When I last miscarried, there was no heart beat on my 7 week scan. I opted to miscarry naturally and started about 2 weeks after i stopped all the medication. Big hugs xx

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