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All I seen to be doing is crying. I have came of Facebook as people posting pictures of baby bumps to baby photos. I just can't handle it. Me and my husband want a baby so badly and the fear of the hospital on Monday 😣😣. As the last time we were there it was to to get told there was no heartbeat. I would love to do the journey again but I'm so scared. My husband says we don't need to go through it but I don't think he means it. I'm sorry for this but if I don't get it out there. 😘😘

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Lou9

Really sorry to hear how you are feeling. You need to do whatever you can to protect yourself, so coming off Facebook sounds like a good idea. It is so hard seeing other people's bump and baby pics when it is all you wish and hope for, especially after all you've been through. Sending you a hug. Xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Sorry lovely your feeling like this it's such a heartbreaking situation. Especially when your looking at others that have just what you want and your fighting so much to get there. I agree with Lou9 do whatever you need to protect yourself. I hope your appointment goes well it's hard I know but it will get easier as time goes on. I hope and pray you get your rainbow baby just like I do for all the ladies here.

Sending you big hugs and lots of love 💗🤗😘

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penny24

I’ve come off Facebook for exactly the same reasons, so fed up of seeing pictures of babies and kids. Feels a lot better coming off it because I don’t get a constant reminder. The fertility nurse even recommended coming off fb

Good luck to you both, wishing u all the luck in the world xxx

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robbie03

So sorry you are feeling so sad....I would delete your Facebook app and when pick your phone up to look at it, message a friend or family member for support, or post on here! People on there don’t mean to rub it in your face, they normally are oblivious to what some couples go through! Every couple I know who has had infertility problems, don’t paste every detail on social media - so for every post you do see, there will also be people deliberately not putting up posts as to not upset people in your position!

Protect yourself and do whatever you need to do to make life a tiny bit easier for yourself! We are all here for you xxx

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Leesara

Agree with others

InsteD of FB, post here and at least others will u sweat and and be supportive. Go easy on yourself xx

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E_05

I agree coming off Facebook helps and the support you get from writing on here it’s much more beneficial. I understand your desire to just want a baby and the fear of going back to the hospital just take a step at a time and I really hope your apt goes well x

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Tugsgirl

I’ve hidden so many people from my newsfeed on Facebook that it’s made up of ads and history pages. All pretty boring really, probably why I spend so much time on here instead. I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling. Coming off Facebook was the right thing for you to do. Xx

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sandy112

So sorry Hun hope everything goes well at your appointment

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