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Tomorrow's the scan...

I'm driving myself out of my tiny mind. They couldn't fit me in at 12 weeks so I'll be 13 weeks tomorrow and it's the scan day. Every time we've had a scan so far we've had bad news so I guess I'm just filled with this ominous feeling?

We already know they're going to confirm the loss of one of our twins but I'm so worried the other little one won't be doing as it should. Plus my husband and I let ourselves get a bit excited this week, talking about the baby and the future for the first time ever and it's always seemed whenever we do that, relax and start thinking it'll be ok, it all goes to rubbish again. So I'm plodding through the longest work day and trying not to go insane :( really don't know how I'll cope if tomorrow is more of the same. Just want one thing to go right I'm so tired of one drama after another :(

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Fingers crossed for good news xxx

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Thank you x

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Sending loads of positive vibes your way hun xxx

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Thank you xxxx

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Good luck for tomorrow! Let's hope you can relax after then xxxx

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Thank you hopefully that's the case and it's all been worth it xxx

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Hi Kitty - sending lots of love for your scan tomorrow, I hope all goes well and you get much more positive news so you can start getting excited about your pregnancy x x x

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Thank you. I hope so too it's been so much negativity for so long now, even outside of the IVF stuff we've had a hard time in our family in general the last few years so it's be nice to just have something good to focus on. Xxxx

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I completely understand. Let's hope this time tomorrow things are looking up. Wishing you all the best x x x

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Thinking of you and fingers firmly crossed! X Let us know how you get on.

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Thank you. I will do definitely xx

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Thinking of you xxx Sending lots of positive thoughts your way xx

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Thank you xx

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Good luck for tomorrow x

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Thank you xxxx

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Good luck for tomorrow! 🍀🍀🍀

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Thank you xx

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I've got everything crossed for you!! X

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Thank you x

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Good luck tomorrow, hopefully you'll hear only good news xx🙏🏼

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Thank you. Fingers crossed. I'm up early as usual to do my cyclogest as normal. Going to be a long morning lol x

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Sending you lots of positivity for tomorrow and hoping that everything will be ok xx

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Thank you. Me too I'm hoping we've had our share of heartache now but then again I also think hope is such a dangerous thing in the face of disappointment. Fingers crossed it's good news xxx

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Very best of luck! I'm sure it will go well. Keep positive 🍀

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Best of luck for your scan today lovely, I really hope it's good news and you can now sit bk and I enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xxxx

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Wishing you lots of luck.. Xxx

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Fingers crossed for you, hope its all good news!! I very much know the feeling of being scared to hope and allow yourself to be happy.. so I'm sending you an extra portion of BD your way!! xoxo

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