you'd never guess what!!

[bestfriendever]

hi, i'm not regular poster here but i want to share my updates. Well, I'd like to start with happy news about my journey. We have a great conversation with my surrogate via skype. unfortunately, we couldn't fly to ukraine but we will do it soon. I'm happy in general but there is still a problem...

Once I've noticed that my dear husband is late at work, then I found him typing on a back yard... around 45 minutes. He was smiling and satisfied why I asked myself.!

In few days I saw him speaking with someone (a woman) near our house, he just said it's his friend from work. But I supposed it was his bird sorry about that

then, late evening calls, super tired at work, no sex and short phases like 'good morning I have to go' 'hi dear, I'm exhausted, need a shower and sleep'

I hate when he acting like that. I'm devastated, I don't know, I'm mess, I want to check his phone but I'm scared what if he wants to leave ... we were palsy-walsy and now!

Our perfect marriage is falling down, how he could do it, he helped me to survive, to live with my trauma. He saved me from alcohol addiction, he showed a new way, we became stronger together..

[Hidden]

Speak to him....

[bestfriendever in reply to Hidden]

and that's it? oh wow! thank you for reply.

I've tried to speak but he is closed, he didn't want, he is so suspicious and it's obvious. It has started around a month when we had our skype conversation. what was the reason for it i don't know, but I will figure out sooner or later

[Hidden in reply to bestfriendever]

Well it starts with a conversation between couples. I did not notice that you said you tired to speak with him in your first post.

so if it were me that's what I would do rather than sit there and turn myself crazy as if what you are going through is not crazy enough.

Each persons response would be different but I am sure it would say have you spoken to him....

I am not a couples councillor but at some point he will have to face you.

Hope it all works out

[bestfriendever in reply to Hidden]

I'm sorry, I'm so confused with his behavior.

I've tried not to pay attention to all these, i thought only about my baby. I know he was always dreaming about big family.

What's happened I have no idea. Maybe it's all because of me, I'm not a that woman he fell in love.

you might be right, he couldn't hide her for a long time. i will wait a bit as i don't want to ruin my marriage right now

[Hidden]

I say focus on your baby If he's not willing to talk about it right now .all will be revealed to you in due course.i hope he comes to his senses soon. I'm sorry for what you are going through.take care of yourself and baby first.

[bestfriendever in reply to Hidden]

thank you very much.

he just came from the works, took a shower and went to bed as he was doing all that time.. I need to be more patient and respect him, right?

I'm afraid of his coldness.. When I met him he was a nice guy with great open heart. His love evoked warm feelings in my soul. He helped me to became a real woman I always wanted to be

any way, I should think about my baby

[Hidden in reply to bestfriendever]

You were a real woman even before you met him.dont give him so much power over you.with or without him you are a strong woman. Do what you have to do for yourself and baby right now.baby needs you to be strong.

Good luck. Xx

[nikki85xx]

This makes me sad to think that you blame your self. When you love someone no matter what happens you stand by that person . You sound like an amazing women and what he is doing is wrong no matter what u have been through. He will realise that the grass isn't greener . Please be strong 💪🏽 and remember your amazing you have got this far with help by him but it's mainly your will power and strength also. Thinking of you 😘