Hi everyone. I really need some help please. I have recently found out that my sister in law is 5 weeks pregnant. I know this shouldnt be an issue but im afraid to say it is. My husband and i have been ttc for 5 years now. We have been going through the ivf process for nearly a year which isnt long compared to some which i appreciate, but we have had 3 failed attempts so far and are embarking on a fet in 3 weeks. I really want her to appreciate how diffucult the next 9 months are going to be for me but she only thinks about what she wants and doesnt think how it will affect others. She has already started moaning how her hormones are affecting her. I just feel like screaming at her. If things dont work out for us as we are down to our last 3 frozen embryos i dont know how i will cope being around her while she is pregnant and after the baby is born. The longer we go through this and more fails we have the harder it is to hear someone else you know is pregnant. I dont want to sound like a cow but im finding this very difficult at ghe moment. Sorry for moaning but if anyone has any advice i would appreciate it. It just seems whatever i want she gets before me. I dont want it to come between me and my husband either as its his sister do i need some help. Thank you xx
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