For all ladies going through the ivf journey who like me may have felt a lack of emotional support from their partners, I've just found this webinar by Russell Davis who is a fertility hypnotherapist and coach
Having been through 8years of secondary infertility, diagnosis of stage 4 endometriosis, 5 laparoscopies and now our 2nd failed ivf cycle, I'm nearly 42 now, I have never felt so insecure, in our 15years of marriage as I do now. Having listened to this video, it's helped me to understand my husband a little better. Hopefully when my husband listens to it he will understand me a little better too.
We're undecided as to whether we should try another cycle. We have said to each other that we won't but I'm still not at peace with this decision as much as I thought I would be.
We weren't emotionally ready for our last cycle. We rushed into it thinking of the age issue. I have a follow-up consultation booked at the clinic at the end of this month. I have told my husband I will cancel it but I don't want to.
I have never cried so many tears as I have in the last few weeks. I need to be sure that we are prepared and we're strong for each other if we try again.
Just wanted to share this with all those women who may be going through something similar.