Hi ladies I really need your help.
I've been suffering with endo for many years. I've had a few ops where by gyne Dr has said that my bowel, bladder and womb are all stuck together and in turn are stuck to my stomach wall. Not only that my left tube and ovary is welded to my bowel. The mass of organs is also stuck to my rectum which is pulled up and stuck to my spine. I also have two fibroids which are at the entrance to my womb and measure in total 11 cms across. I've seen a lot of ladies refer to having operations to excise the endo and have been fine for months/years after.
Can I ask a personal question? I am wondering whether any of you ladies have had this procedure whilst being single? I am having trouble finding an understanding boyfriend due to the problems I am having with the endo, so after my last lap I asked to be referred for sperm donation. Having a baby is now or never for me so my Gyne Dr said. I am now seeing a fertitlity Dr who has confused me on each visit I have had. He said he won't spare the expense on trying to go "slowly slowly" to remove the endo as I won't benefit because I am not in a relationship. I did challenge this saying well wouldn't it benefit me for the sperm donation? he just ignored me but agreed to have another look inside my womb to check it's condition. One visit he said I could have a baby and have a perfectly normal pregnancy and the next time said it would be far too dangerous for me to conceive and carry.
I am now off work with depression and feel so terrible low I have no idea what to do now or where to turn.
Any advice would be really appreciated.
Love to you all x