I'm new the group and have been reading all of your helpful posts about endo, surgery, pain relief, etc. I wanted to get some feedback on hysterectomy+oopherectomy for severe endometriosis and recurrent endometrioma or would taking Lupron or Orlissa be a better way to go? I'm also wondering for those who have had the surgery, how have the longer term side effects been v the pain. I know that osteoperosis, heart disease, joint pain, depression, etc come with removal of ovaries so I'm just wondering how bad it is v natural menopause? Are the "menopausal" drugs like Lupron a better option, but I know these are only temporary so may not really solve the situation.
Just some background, I'm 49 had breast cancer and was on tamoxifen for 4 years. I know tamoxifen increases estrogen to endometrial region so that was bad for me and I stopped taking it 2 months after my surgery. Gyn found endometrioma 2016 but just watched and waited til it got much larger by 2020 and based on her concern of ovarian cancer, she suggested I remove everything at that time. I found an endometriosis surgeron/specialist who said he could remove the endometrioma and endometriosis but still save my ovaries and uterus. The pain was starting to get so bad so I went ahead with laparoscopy in Oct 20. Recovery from that surgery was pretty good for me, back on my feet and doing things after 2 weeks. I felt great for 2 months, but then pain came back. I was able to manage with ibuprofen and tylenol the first time. I saw my surgeon who did an ultrasound and saw a 4cm cyst. He gave me an ovidrel injection to stimulate the ovary to release, in hopes it would release the cyst but it didn't. He suggested Lupron to possibly shrink or keep the cyst from growing further. I was thinking on that one. Just a few days ago, the pain was so excruciating that I was lying on the floor throwing up from pain (my husband said I was screaming) so he took me to emergency. They gave me morphine, ultrasound which confirmed 5cm endometrioma and sent me home to consult with my gyn/surgeon.
Now I'm trying to make the decision what to do next. The pain was absolutely unbearable. I don't think anybody who hasn't gone through it fully understands how bad it is. I told my husband that I just wanted to die or have somebody just rip my insides out, it was that bad. And it seems like this cyst is growing quite rapidly so I don't want to wait Too long.
My first thought is that I'm already 49, on the cusp on menopause so it's probably fine to just take everything out now in hopes that the endo will not come back and I'll have pain relief and no fear of any cancer down there. But I read about side effects of surgical menopause and get scared.
Then I read about Lupron and those side effects sound horrific. If that's only a "band aid" drug that I can take only temporarily, why even bother if I will need a surgery any way? Or would it be worthwhile to try it until I get into natural menopause hopefully in a few years? Does endo get better once you're in natural menopause? Or have people had to have hyster-ooph even after in menopause? I worry that if I don't have ovaries removed, the endometrioma will keep growing or even if I just remove the endometrioma, it will keep growing back next time.
If anybody has gone through these choices and have any advice. Or gone through the surgery and have had success (or not) I would love to hear. I have found comfort in reading all of your stories and seeing your love and support for each other. I think I could use a little of that right now. Thank you!!!