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So I’ve had a sneaking suspicion that I have something wrong with me, I lost my virginity at 13 ( very young I know) but I always have had VERY painful sex, Almost like a burning ripping sensation, I can’t last longer then 2 minutes and it’s becoming very depressing for me and my fiancé. After we have sex it will still continue to burn and hurt for about an hour and a half. I will sit and cry in a ball. I have had HORRIBlLE Periods for my whole life. Irregular, sometimes I will bleed for months straight, sometimes I won’t have one for months, sometimes I will have 3 in a month. I bleed ALOT. And also the cramps I have are indescribable. I sit by the toilet because I feel like I have to vomit. That much pain. I have these weird “uti” pains. But the reason why I don’t think it’s a uti is because I get these about once a week and it burns very bad and I have to pee a lot but it only last for about 1 hour and everything goes away.

Now it’s been almost 5 years of this, I’ve been to doctors and specialists. I don’t have a lot of money I don’t have health insurance so my doctors I tried to see I feel like weren’t the best. 4 doctors told me they couldn’t do anything. They didn’t do any tests or anything and just gave me birth controls to try out and see if it helps. (They didn’t) the last doctor I saw a couple months ago did blood tests a exterior ultrasound and an interior ultrasound. They saw a huge lump on my uterus. And my ovaries were not where they should be. The doctor comes into talk to me about results and treatments. She didn’t bring up the lump or anything. She tried to put me on YET ANOTHER birth control for my period. At this point these doctors don’t care. My period is the last thing on my mind. I go into the doctors to ask what the f is wrong with me and why do I have pain. They never answer that question they only care about my period. They make me feel like this is all in my head and I’m giving up. What should I do I’m sorry this is a long message but I need answers

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