Tube removal and false menopause injections

[mazzda]

Hi all

Let's start light...Merry Christmas everyone.

I have just had a lap to remove servere endometriosis and i have had to have my tubes removed to, I am also awaiting this false menopause injection. I am 31 and have no children so this is quite upsetting for me and my partner.

My question is, is there anyone else in this situation or has been through this to?

I don't know how I'm meant to feel or what will happen as hospital have been quite vague with me.

I'm feeling alone at the moment as nobody I know has been through this so all they say is just be strong. How? When my emotions are how they are.

Any advice guidance would be appreciated

Thank you

Xxx

[milly89]

I’m 28, like you have no children and my partner still seems to think there is going to be a quick fix in that department.

I am awaiting surgery myself and suspect there is a significant amount of damage. When I have my next appointment to discuss treatments I intend to ask what my conceiving chances are, and whether I can have the opportunity to save eggs or whatever pre surgery.

It’s easy for people to say stay strong, but people with this disease will get you, and some days you just can’t.

Love and hugs to you! x

[mazzda in reply to milly89]

Thanks hun.

It's awful isn't it and very lonely at times and hard when there's nobody around you who fully understands. Not that you wish anyone to be in the same position.

My partner is amazing I really am lucky there but when I get upset its all the come on stop its ok you feel like screaming for God sake let me have a moment lol. Although they are right.

Hope your surgery isn't as extensive as you are thinking my love not all endo ends up like mine.

Love and hugs to you to love xxx