Oh my lovely how bloody rotten for you!! As if you haven't been through enough!!!.... Ok so I have a few questions so bear with me, did the dr give any indication as to what could be wrong?? How's your appetite now and the crying? Could it be all hormonal related!??... Are you in pain???
I truly understand how being off for another month is a worry for both you and your husband, but if you go back to work and let's say pass out or worse then you may be signed off for even longer! Your health is the most important thing and I'm sure your hubby knows that!... These three months that I'm signed off for I get no pay as I have exceeded my pay in work from being sick so much, and having time off after my other operations!.. We were both panicking but after contacting my HR team I realised that I could claim SSP (statatory sick pay), which equates to £70 something a week. It's no where near what I would normally earn but it's something! We have cut back on food and anything else we can.
At the end of the day you will manage I'm sure. Your health is so important hun,if it were your husband poorly you wouldn't want him in work struggling.
Speak to him and tell him how you are feeling, you're recovering from a major operation and have now hit complications, you need his support.
Please let me know how you are getting on and what your consultant says!
Look after yourself and message me anytime!!... If you want my mobile number to chat privately then please say. I'm here for you and to help however I can.