Depressed and bleeding

[nikita_60]

Hey girls i need to get this out sorry im so low recently. I cry at everything and I seem so moody, everyone around me is getting pregnant or has just had a baby it's really getting me down It seems it's never going to happen for me. Another thing bothering me if anyone can help I have been bleeding for weeks now? Xx

[Callymera]

Hi Nikita, I'm really sorry that you're so up[set and feel so low. I can't really offer any conception advice but I really hope you feel better soon and am sending youn lots of love. Lisa xxxx

[nikita_60 in reply to Callymera]

Awww bless ya thank you so much that's lovely xxxx

[Callymera in reply to nikita_60]

It's awful to feel that way and feels so unfair, too! Honestly sending you loads of gorgeous love to lift your heart xxxx

[nikita_60 in reply to Callymera]

Thank you again your so nice xxx

[yllek1982]

I'm so sorry you are feeling low Hun- it's so difficult this whole process and all I can say is I know the feeling. I wrote on here and the support was amazing and made me feel not alone so I just wanted to say your not alone and sending hugs your way xxxxx

[nikita_60 in reply to yllek1982]

Thank you xx

[JellyKat]

Hi Hun, I can't offer much in help, but know that you're not alone!

I recently came off the pill TTC, but feel so low because of the pain and cry so easily because of the hormones - trying to keep a brave face on things but being in agony inside, plus the heartache of being in too much pain when I do ovulate to do anything about it and then there's the impact the pain is having on my job which is hard enough without being off work ill!

the only advice I can give is to not rely on others making sure you set seen by who you should and when - I've lost over 5 weeks now waiting for a referral that had been lost in the post/misunderstanding by clerics etc.

Sending you hugs though 💐

[nikita_60 in reply to JellyKat]

Thank you I'm just frustrated with it all I'm close to losing my job. The pain is hurrendous I've only one ovary left and they already said it wouldn't happen for me . Then said it's a slim possibility so confusing and mentally destroying me. I'm sorry your going through so much too. It's nice to have someone to talk to about it that understands xxx

[JellyKat in reply to nikita_60]

doesnt it feel like a lottery, where no one knows what the odds are?

Are your employers not willing to make reasonable adjustments for you? Are in a job where adjustments could be made?

Hope you find something to make you smile today ☺️ Xxx

[nikita_60 in reply to JellyKat]

It certainly does they have done but I've just returned from 12 weeks off on sick And you have made me smile so thank you xxx

[JellyKat in reply to nikita_60]

I hope that physically you are feeling better then, but it doesn't mean that how you feel in yourself is any less important...

I had considered finding a counsellor to talk to about it all, because I don't want to worry my family or friends with it all, but feel like there's a lot to get off my chest (although I do wonder if its selfish of my to want to dump a heap of emotional crap on a stranger, just because I'm paying them to take it & because they're 'a professional'... hmm...).

I have spoken to a counsellor before, around 9 years ago when I could feel myself going down the route of depression (for which I had taken antidepressants when I had it 14 years ago), which I wanted to avoid. talking really helped though.

This group looks like they're really supportive though, but if it's more than "just feeling a bit low" and talking doesn't help, then get yourself some proper medical support. The long term bleeding may be an issue worth checking out if nothing else?? (N.B. I am new to this - still waiting for confirmation of diagnosis)

If nothing else, you can post on here, be totally honest & get some advice Xxx

[eski_82]

I know this feeling well. Sorry you're having a hard time. Have you spoken to your doctor about the bleeding? I would try and get some answers about that. Sending hugs xx