Hi all, hope your all doing well,
I'm 3 weeks tomorrow post hysterectomy and excision of endo, I'm doing well I think, had a bad day yesterday, think I did a little to much the few day prior,
But I can't stop crying, now my husband and I have had a few words, now his been really good looking after the house and cooking, and kids been doing there bit, but that's where it's stopped, I don't no if I'm being real selfish or if I'm right in thinking he should have done more,
From the beginning,
Peter and 3 sons cone to hospital with flowers and fruit, lovely
I came home from hospital to a changed bed but messy bedroom, I thought he could have made it look nice and even add a candle or 2!
Then nothing, but feed and watered, no little pressies no special effects ECT ECT
Then he goes out to do some shopping and bought himself a pair of football boots and a jet wash, then on my first proper walk around the park, he took a call from someone from work, his on night, and talked for 10 mins out of the 20 that we was there for
What is the matter with men/him, am I expecting too much or do you agree his been selfish?
Now I can't stop crying, tried telling him how I feel, that I want to feel special, loved, wowed, I want to say, wow my husband was brilliant when I was ill and had my hysterectomy, but I cant, because I don't think he has been,
He thinks his done brilliant because his going to work, shopping, cooking, cleaning.
But only doing a small proportion of what I would normally do, but I only ever worked part time.
Rant over, fed up with doing nothing, and feeling very low