Dear All,
I'm 51 and I had a subtotal hysterectomy last year. I needed the surgery because I had large fibroids (the surgeon told me they were 9 centimetres). I was suffering from bad period pains, heavy bleeding, and days when I felt nauseous and nearly threw up in the mornings. My doctor gave me some pills to help with the nausea. The surgeon wanted to remove my uterus (leaving the cervix) tubes and ovaries. After my surgery she told me that she removed my right ovary but she couldn't find the left one. Perhaps it was hidden. It was difficult to remove my uterus because lot of tissue stuck to my bowel. The surgery was becoming risky because I was bleeding so she had to end it.
After the operation I had a bladder infection which I took antibiotics for. I had no other problems and I went back to work.
However, two months after the operation there were three days during which I felt awful and I couldn't get out of bed. I had some light cramps in my stomach and just generally felt horrible. We noticed that the previous month at around the same time I had three days during which I felt terrible. At the time we thought I was dehydrated. Three weeks later again I had three days of slight pain and being nauseous. I had to take the anti nausea pill my doctor gave me before my surgery.
I've had two ultrasound tests since then. The tests confirmed that I still have my left ovary. I told the doctor about the times I've been feeling unwell and nauseous and asked if it could be caused by hormones released by the ovary. She said she would write a letter to the surgeon and ask for me to have a gynaecological exam.
The problems have continued with me having four or five days in a row of having abdominal pain, nausea, feeling woozy, being unable to concentrate and wanting to sleep.The nausea gets better in the evenings and I can eat a normal meal then. During the day I can only eat a piece of toast or a banana at a time. My husband has to run the house and do the cooking by himself. He's told me he feels isolated because I hardly talk to him during the days I'm affected.
We've been keeping a diary of when I feel unwell. We can't find any regular pattern. Sometimes they happen three weeks apart, sometimes I get them ten days after I last had them. I've been keeping a diary of what I eat as well to see if there is anything that's affecting the cramps. I can't find any connection between what I eat and when I feel unwell.
Because of the cramps and nausea I've been missing work.Because of the unpredictability of the cramps and nausea I have had to call in ill meaning the timetable has to be rewritten at short notice, and the manager has to find cover for the hours I was scheduled for. This has caused a lot of tension.
My husband and I can't make any long term plans because we don't know if I will be well or not a week in advance. We can't plan to go on holiday because we don't know if I will be well enough to travel.
Before the operation I felt my life was on hold. We hope that after it was over and I was recovered we would be able to move forward with our lives. Now we feel we're in limbo. I tell my doctor about how unwell I feel. I've been told that they have referred me to the hospital to have tests in the gynaecology and gastroenterology departments.
I'm fed up with being unwell and I'm beginning to feel afraid that the cramps and nausea will go on and on. Can anyone help? Has anyone had similar problems?