So, I had a diagnostic ureteroscopy and laparoscopy on the 4th of March and was discharged from hospital on the 6th. My boyfriend came to visit for the weekend and we had sex twice. Was that too early? I'd read some stuff about having to wait two weeks, but I'd seen other things that said just to do it whenever I felt ready. The only thing that hurt during were my incisions. Now it hurts when I pee and I have a little bit of blood whenever I wipe. Is this normal?