After having my son 12 weeks ago i decided to go back to fitness classes a few weeks ago. I have been getting on brill and upped from 2 classes to 3 and my driving instructor does a class on a thurs night and has talked me into it. I have been paying for classes individually but found out there is a monthly pass for £28 and i can go to as many classes as i like. I told my fiance about this as it would save a lot of money and he agreed to it. i don't drive so i have to buy a weekly bus ticket for £12 but this saves me money in the long run. I told my fiance that i was gonna get the monthly pass today and he kicked off saying that i'm spending too much money and that i will not be going to 4 classes. Who does he think he is? I am a full time mum on my maternity leave and i love my classes. He comes across as so controlling telling me what i'll be doing when he is free to do what he likes. He has his GA meetings and pool each week and i have no hobbies or outlets to vent at all. I told him that if i get the monthly pass i'll go to as many classes as i like and he said 'well we are over then'. Thats his answer to everything. I am a habitual creature though and i prefer to go to classes in the morning and he says i should go at night when hes in but then i know what will happen. He'll moan about having to sort out the kids after working all day. Its a vicious circle. I was standing at the bus stop ready to go to class but i thought stuff it, i'll save us some money alright and do nothing at all. Stubborn i know but i'm hacked off with him!!
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